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We matched on Tinder a few weeks ago and hit it off right away. I knew him from around school (we go to a small college) but never really got a chance to talk to him until now. He's a physics major. He seemed eager to hang out and since I have a single in my dorm, it was easy to hang out at my place. We would text mostly every day and snapchat a lot. The first two nights we hung out we just cuddled and watched Netflix, and the second night he slept over and fell asleep cuddling with me. Then we had a few more nights, usually drinking and watching Netflix and sometimes having sex. He isn't big on football but asked if I wanted to watch the game with him and I thought it was really sweet. When we went outside to take a walk he would hold my hand and put his arm around me. He's stayed over two other nights since then. But now our texting has become less frequent, and when I asked him why, he said he just honestly isn't a big texter. We didn't text a lot last week but when I asked him to hang out that weekend he seemed excited and we made plans. So we hung out last Friday for a bit and he was going to stay over again but his best friend was drunk and sick and he left to go help. This past week we've talked a bit over text but we snapchat a lot less and when I asked to hang out he said he's busy all week because of projects and exams. He did run into me and my friend Tuesday night as we were stargazing and he sat next to me and held my hand a bit. I texted him after saying it was nice and I didn't get a reply. Since then we've texted but not a lot and I haven't tried texting him first anymore since he told me he wasn't big on texting a few days ago. Whenever he sees me in public he waves and smiles but since we're both in a rush to class we don't get a chance to chat. I spent time at home this weekend and really haven't heard much from him. I snapchat him a few times a day but I rarely get a reply now but he opens them right away. Am I just coming off as clingy by doing that? What to do?

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I've been seing this guy for four dates. We get along very well, we text everyday and have a lot of inerests in common. He usually initiates conversation, asks me about my day and is interested on my take on things I'm passionate about. He also recommends me books, music and we joke around a lot. However, he is not very expressive and he is very rational. He has told me I'm pretty and that he likes me. We haven't had sex but we have kissed passionately, he gave me little kisses in my face and in the forehead when we kissed... he also caressed my hair a lot while kissing me and when saying goobye he kissed me and then came back for another kiss. It was really sweet.

However, he knows i'm dating other guys and he is dating another girl. According to him, he hasn't kiss her, they've been on one date. Today they are going on their second. I like him but he said he doesn't want to rush into a relationship because he has done so in the past and people end up being hurt. I don't want to get hurt, so I keep my options open. Its weird because he is really affectionate and passionate when he kisses me but no disrepecful. Actually, when we were kissing things got a little heated and he interrupted me to help me with a paper I had to turn in for class.

What do you guys think? I'm going out tomorrow with him to eat ice cream and I don't know his thoughts... is weird. Because on one hand I'm sure he wants to get to know me or else he wouldn't text as much or ask me about things that are important to me. He also is interested in the things I like. Although, he could also be bored and just wants to talk to someone. On the other hand, he seems reluctant to a relationship and like I told you he is also keeping his options open with the other girl.