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You may find this story a fairy tale in course. Maybe even a great, funny story to enjoy. I REALLY need your help. Please read, but if you want to answer and just skip it, please answer and say you skipped this there. I WILL REALLY APPRECIATE SINCERE, USEFUL, ELABORATED ANSWERS, PLEASE...

GIRLS answers are REALLY appreciated

Here it goes. *sigh*

I have known this girl since I was 14 years old. I know I liked her then However, I wasn't looking for anything then, I so was blind. Girls weren't my priority. Time passed, and we became kind of friends, for I was so like her she began to like me-like me. I got to know it, and the very moment I knew she was expecting me to ask her out or sth of the sort, I stood back. I was not looking for anything with any girl then, or maybe she hadn't awaken the love I feel now yet. I just freezed and said nothing, most probably making her feel bad -or at least I would have felt that if I was her then.

Time passed, and she became 15. As promised by her, I was invited to the party, a party that would be a sweet 16 one in my country. As I saw her coming in, she awakened something on me that may never sleep again. I fell in love with her. So much. And she began to forget about me, for now I think of it I guess she had.

Now she had a boyfriend, and so I had to wait. The stupid things they wrote on their fb walls made me so bad sometimes. And the pictures of them kissing. And the words they use. Pure torture. And still I waited. Since then I wrote her three love songs. Beautiful. One of them, "I love you", just as that, being the evolution of my love towards her. And how much I loved her then.

Her relationship wasn't forever and it was over. I guess he cheated on her, perhaps for her not giving him sex or sth like that. Besides, being objective, the guy was ugly. I don't see what she saw on him. And I'm not being just mean for jealousy. Two years passed.

So it was my time to ask her out. When I did, she put a rather silly excuse.The only relationship with her was Facebook chatting. Our friendship was lost, except when I talk to her I talk like if we were friends from a lifetime.

SO HERE'S THE POINT. I'M TOO SHY. SHE LIKED ME ONCE. TIME PASSED. I ASK HER OUT FOR I AM IN LOVE WITH HER. SHE REJECTS ME MAYBE FOR ALMOST LOSING CONTACT (CHATTING REALLY RARELY). 9 MONTHS HAPPENED SINCE I ASKED HER AND WAS REJECTED. WE CHAT EVERY TWO MONTHS, BECAUSE I'M TOO SHY TO CHAT MORE AND BECAUSE SINCE I ASKED HER OUT SHE TAKES TOO LONG TO ANSWER ME EVERY TIME. MAYBE SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK TO ME. MAYBE I'M BOTHERING HER.

BUT I'M IN LOVE WITH HER.

This is my idea... I WANT TO TELL HER BY Facebook MY LOVE, AND SHOW HER MY SONG RECORDED. TELL HER WHAT I FEEL, NOT EXPECTING ANYTHING. I DON'T FEEL I STAND A CHANCE. BUT I REALLY LOVE HER.

We are both 19 years old now... A long time has passed

WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO? CHOOSE FROM THE POLL PLEASE ONLY IF YOU READ THE DETAILS HERE.

Help!

Oh, I love her... I love her so much.

I notice girls with boyfriends everywhere do the same thing. They start missing you. Even though they are taken and you are single. In the end you end up a fool. Not to say guys don't use girl but most don't want attention like girls. They want sex. Being used for attention or for a deep emotional arelationship is sick and very cruel. It can ruin a single mans life. It can take months if not years to forget depending on how close they got. Most girls do it to someone. But that just what I've seen. So I ask it in a poll..

Look at the poll below... I want to map out what people want at the moment for their sexual and romantic life. Choose one of the below.

Also ..what is keeping you at the moment from achieving this goal ?

You are attending a social event and you meet four equally attractive, but different individuals who catch your eye. You have an opportunity to date either one of them, however, they are friends, so you can only get to choose one. Who would you date and why? Why did you choose not to date the other three prospects? Please submit narrative in addition to the poll to reflect why you made your decision.

Prospect A: This person is the epitome of the European Standard of beauty. They are educated, accomplished, selfish, vain, self centered self serving. This person feels they are doing you a favor by agreeing to go out with you and rarely displays emotions.

Prospect B: This person does not meet the European standard of beauty but is equally physically attractive in their own way. This person is educated, accomplished, appears somewhat distant at times, compulsive shopper (even occasionally buys you gifts.) Requires a bit more "personal space" than you're generally comfortable with. Can be a bit emotional at times. This person is into you as much as you are into them, but seems a bit guarded with displaying emotions.

Prospect C: This person does not meet the European standard for beauty but is equally physically attractive in their own way. This person is educated, accomplished, mildly materialistic, has a mild flair for dramatics, sometimes places their same sex friends needs above yours, and can be somewhat controlling. This person is equally into you as you are them and can be overly emotional.

Prospect D: This person does not meet the European standard for beauty but is equally physically attractive in their own way. This person is educated, accomplished, is driven professionally to the point where they sometimes will spend less time with you than you would like due to professional pursuits. Can be a somewhat obsessive compulsive regarding some details in their life. This person values the opinions of their parents a bit too much. Lucky you! Their parents approve of them dating you. Sometimes likes to partake of hobbies that you don't particularly enjoy. This person is equally into you as you are into them and can be somewhat passionate with their emotions.

This condition is not valid in human's world but I can say that as a person who like to watch animal documentary.females are much more stronger than males in many species' world.For example In many species' world female animal kills or eats male animal after pairing,sex and females are much bigger than males.they are like giants compared to male animals

Of course beating a lady is disgusting but as everyone know in the human's world males can easily beat females,if they want because we are stronger here but what would happen,in general if females had the power sufficent for beating men to death,if they want?All opinion will be welcomed by me.please don't forget to vote poll

Okay, I'm anonymous so that my sex won't affect your answers. I need help to know what is most appropriate given this scenario. So this involves 3 people. The main person had made plans to do something with the person they are in love with for Saturday mid-afternoon. The plans were made Friday night but the time was not set in stone, they only planned on doing something mid-afternoon on Saturday. Saturday morning came and the main person got asked by a friend to go eat ice cream at their house with a group of friends at 1pm. The main person did want to go eat ice cream but had rough plans that weren't set in stone for sometime that afternoon. So, which action would be the most appropriate thing to do in this situation? The main person should: (A, B, C)

This question is a more unique way of asking the age old question of Jerk vs. Nice Guy who is going to win the race?

I just watched this movie and even the behind the scenes, in the behind the scenes they had a scene similar to Will Hunting from Good Will Hunting when Will gets into a heated philosophical/political debate with an intellectual snob at a bar before winning over Minnie Driver's character. The same exact scene is either mocked/parodied/ or straight up copied (its hard to tell) when Tucker meets a frat boy douche bag with a popped neon pink color at a bar. Of course, this scene was omitted during editing, yet some thing about Tucker is still strikingly reminiscent of Matt Damon's character in Good Will Hunting. I guess Tucker is like a water downed version.

Nonetheless, he fits the bill for the following characteristics; Jerk, misogynist, witty, smart-alecky, snobbish, haughty, arrogant, cocky, ballsy, rude, offensive, derogatory, loud-mouthed, selfish, gruff, lacking tact, tasteless, and the list goes on.

Yet, there is something charming about his character, he seems sure of himself and what he says in the movie, as if what people say in response to him has no bearing how he perceives himself. Until the very end that is, but even then he's still the same.

The poll, consider also, Option A you'd definitely want to have sex with the guy like him, and descending down to Option E, I'd never sleep with a guy like this. Also, keep in mind, this guy's demeanor, style, gait and smile in the movie. Do these things affect your view of the kind of guy he is?

I asked this question, because after observing my fellow gender-mates during my HS and college years, as well as being on this site for almost 3 years now...

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...i run across many guys that don't seem to genuinely LIKE the female gender.

I notice the attitude and demeanor some guys have in regards to talking about women, and to me, they seem to talk to women not because they enjoy talking to women...

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...but because they want sex and/or companionship, and conversing with them is just "a means to an end".

I find this extremely sad that there are so many misogynistic guys in the dating game...yet they want people of a gender they genuinely dislike (or at best, toleration) to have sex with them or date or even marry you?

*shrug*

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So to my fellow males (and girls can chime in, too), do you genuinely like the female gender, as in the way they are that is different and complimentary to the male gender...

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...or do you simply at best tolerate them just to get what you want (sex / companionship in some sort)?

Girls can vote on what they think the average guy in their age group would vote in this poll.

Anonymous is allowed so feel free to answer as detailed as you wish.

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P.S. Feel free to guess the Pokemon :-P

And how f***ed up is my life?

I'll try and sum myself up quickly then tell you my problem. I'm 17, currently at college (live in the UK so no confusion). I've had one girlfriend before but I was only like 13/14 so it wasn't really a proper relationship as in 'love', but we did do few sexual things but not sex. Stopped going out after a year. I'm a geeky guy, I'm into computer games and I like watching TV shows loke Doctor Who and things like that. I have moderate intelligence (got 2A's 2B's at end of last year, A in full a level I did a year early in maths and rest are phys, bio and chem at AS) but I don't think I'm actually that smart. I'm pretty shy but I have forced myself into situations where I'm not comfortable so I will be okay for uni and have been getting better on that front. I feel very stressed about applying to uni and college work which is why I'm often up till like 1am. I'm the kind of guy that doesn't admit to anything for feat of being considered and outcast due to the small number of friends I have.

I like this girl. She's into video games and action movies like James Bond and she likes to watch F1 and football. We used to be really good friends then for like a yer we barely spoke but since set ember we have gotten closer again. I'm in year 13 and I had asked her out in year 7, first of high school, but it was a no. Then like a year later had girlfriend as explained above, after had more sexual urges and started sexting basically a girl that I knew liked me and then stopped when she outright said she liked me, so we stopped talking. Year 10/11 me and this girl I like and asked out before we're getting closer and we went to prom together but since school had ended we didn't speak barely, then at prom she was with her friends and she didn't want us to sit near each other because it would be awkward for me since I didn't really know her friends then. After prom where we didn't really see each other or speak other than before and on the way there've basically pretty much stopped talking for year 12 just because I felt like I was annoying her (she never replied to texts I sent or ever sent one first). Year 12, start college and met some new girls, spoke to them and basically started sexting her since she like me too, even though I like this girl. Things go wrong because of this and we stop sexting. Start stop of the sexting happens often and I feel bad for it. I trust her and have told her personal stuff but I see her as just a good friend. So basically I think I have liked this girl since year 7 to year 13 now but she doesn't get text me first even about college work anymore so I don't think she likes me, should I ask her out Because I can't stop thinking about her? Also, poll on how f***ed up do you think my life is on scale of 1-10, 10 being very f***ed up.

Obviously, there are multiple reasons why someone can be attractive, but the question is really about which one reason is the driving or most powerful reason an older guy is attractive.

Without writing a novel about each option, people know they are attracted to someone else when they get a gut-level emotion or feeling. That feeling could be: (a) confidence in knowing that the person is at a certain life stage to be ready to give you what you want in terms of marriage and family; (b) comfort in knowing that the person is genuinely caring, warm, understanding, listening, considerate, and emotionally affectionate and tender; (c) a burning hunch that this person knows his way around the bedroom and your body than anyone else you've ever met, and that you could enjoy the best sex of your life - over and over again - if you're with him; (d) feeling like you've met your other half or philosophical twin, or just someone you can communicate with on a deeper level and is able to keep up with you and keep you interested intellectually; (e) feeling feminine and like a woman around him or with him, and seeing him as manly and masculine, creating a sharp contrast effect around the male/female dichotomy.

So, which one is it for you?

Feel free to comment, but this is mostly about the poll.