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Yesterday, my boyfriend decided that we shouldn't go out anymore, and wanted to be friends with benefits. I agreed, because i had been wanting to tell him that we werent ready for a relationship yet, and i was completely okay with it. Everything seemed to at least be going okay; i still didn't talk to him in school, but we chatted on snapchat and video called and all that. But just out of generosity, I decided to text him on sc, and ask how he's doing. But comes to find out, he has un added me as a friend, and im shocked. I know i haven't said or did anything to him, and a lot of times, i would never be able to hang out with him outside of school because of my parents decisions. But there were signs. Lots of them and i should have taken them. I felt like i was being used, and manipulated, and i should have dumped him from the start when i started seeing signs. (nothing to do with cheating btw) A lot of times i felt lonely, like if he was the only other person i could talk to, i didn't want to because i knew he wouldn't fully listen. So what should i think? Was it a joke, or was he really playing? Was i stupid? Or is this not that serious? Should i confront him, or leave him alone for good?

He agrees that it sucks for us whenever we have the monthly cramps but admitted that guys in society have it harder. This were the examples we gave:

Man doesn't want marriage nor kids, he's a loser wasting her time. She's strining her along and she needs to dump him.
Woman says doesn't want marriage nor kids yet, he should consider her feelings and maybe wait for her.

Man doesn't want sex (or for whatever reason isn't ready) and girl is upset, thinks he's cheating, he's a jerk, etc.
Woman doesn't want, her wish is respected otherwise it would be rape.

Man cries in public and very few people would help him.
Woman cries and she's immediately getting support.

Man gets stalked by an ex girlfriend and is excused by an ''oh she's just a bit crazy... what a drama queen''.
Woman gets stalked by an ex boyfriend and it's immediately taken into concern.

Man wants his child to be born but too bad if the woman wants to abort it, even if behind his back.
Woman can get to decide whether to abort the child or not even though it's both her and his child.

Man insults and screams at the woman and he's a pig for talking to a lady in that manner.
Woman does that and it's an ''What did he do to deserve it''.

Man doesn't get to decide if the relationship progress. The girl has to say yes to being his girlfriend.
Woman doesn't have to do the whole asking out too much (hardly if ever) and can easily get a boyfriend.

I dumped my boyfriend because I didn't feel appreciated and I couldn't trust him. Tonight he is picking up his clothes. I kinda wanna say something to put him in his place, my mom thinks I should leave his stuff at the door. I'd probably say something like about him giving me false impressions about our future together, or being shady, or goodluck hope you find someone you actually care about. I don't know part of me just wants to see him one last time, look real good, make him feel sorry for what he lost. Last time i texted him he didn't seem to care about the breakup. Any thoughts?

So I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years
Im his longest relationship and he's mine too
After 1 year of dating, he introduced me to his parents
And then recently, he introduced me to his other relatives (uncles, aunties, cousins, grandparents)
Im the first girl out of all his ex girlfriends to meet all his family
He has warned me about how toxic his family are.. they talk shit about everyone behind their back
Im a shy and quiet girl
But they all acted nice towards me

So anyway, today my boyfriend told me that his aunty told him that his mum has been talking shit about her, about him and about me as well
He told me that his mum thinks im a gold digger and im using him for his money
I got offended by this
And my boyfriend said this:
"Look dont worry about my mum, i already told u she would talk shit, she's like that, all the family knows she's messed up, i dont care what she says anyway, and my aunty tried to defend u by saying ur a nice girl and i told my aunty that u had a better job than me so you're not using me for money"

Hearing that his mum talking crap about me hurts...
Im pretty sure she said more nasty things about me
I've always wanted a family oriented man
Because i love my family

Should i dump my boyfriend because of this?

I am feeling really iffy about him at this point.

We’ve only known each other for 1.5 months and on the 3rd date, he decided to make things official. It was way to fast but he asked me to be his girlfriend and official. Right off the batch, he wasn’t sure about the relationship because he doesn’t know me well enough. But then why he wanted to make it exclusive? And he asked me to his girlfriend. We talked it out, i asked to back out and just keep hanging out... he basically disagree wants to keep this as girlfriend boyfriend. So here we are... I feel like he threw me into being his girlfriend and then now, he’s the one unsure and acting weird.

He is not really treating this like a committed relationship. I feel more like we’re just dating and seeing each other once a week. Our communication is 99.9% through text. At this point, he only told a few friends he has a girlfriend. I have not met any of his friends. He don’t want me to meet them yet.

Since last-night 12:30am he has not been on whatsapp at all. He has not touch his phone since? We are meeting up tonight though. I have no clue what he’s doing and at this point, no trust is gain. He most of the time would send me a goodnight message but recently, when he’s out with his friends... he sometimes doesn’t and disappear until the next day. Last Sunday, we didn’t talk at all. He just went MIA until Monday.

Should I just dump him and find someone else? Is this shady? I am so confused!