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I think they're bullshitting when they say it's never justified to hit a woman. Yeah, I understand I have a lot more force and power than women, but there are plenty of justified scenarios.

Scenario #1... You get home after a long days work and you see your wife in bed naked with another man. The other man runs off and then your wife starts throwing household items at you saying that she's going to steal all your shit in the divorce. She gets in your face and spits on you. I personally think a slap across the face is more than fucking justified there. The right thing to do? Maybe not, but more than justified.

Scenario #2... You're in the bad part of town and some woman starts following you with her boyfriend. They see that you rolled up in a BMW and you're wearing a Rolex. The boyfriend stands by with a knife in his hand, and the girl approaches you pinning you up against a wall telling you to hand over the watch. I think both the woman and man both deserve an ass beating.

Scenario #3... Your wife and you are both experiencing issues in your marriage. There's a lot of built up resentment on both sides. They have a disagreement and the wife just starts unloading verbal assault on him. The truth all comes out and they're at it. He grabs his wife placing his hands on each side of her face with some force staring at her yelling that he loves her and to just shut the fuck up and believe him.

^ that last scenario is all too common in different variations on here. The guys respond by saying "I'll never lay a hand on a woman, he hurt you, and you should leave him because he's a woman beater."

Dude... that's what love can do to you. have you never had intense feelings or emotions towards a woman? When you're straight up in love with a woman, they have the ability to drive you crazy as fuck. You've never been in a fight like that with a family member? Cmon... it's beyond me as to guys have absolutely no understanding when these kinds of questions are posted on gag.

I get the idea that both men and women tries to justify an act in which it disregards the partner's feeling about what they do/did.

Examples:
1. Argument: you shouldn't tattoo your back.
Justification: well it's MY body, so i can do whatever i want.

2. Argument: don't go out at night and leave me alone in here.
Justification: i need TIME to hangout with my boys.

3. Argument: babe let's have some sex, i have to vent out my sexual frustration.
Justification: why can't you just hold it IN?

Etc. My argument may not be the most perfect, but i'm just thinking has people forgotten that if you're married you don't own yourself? Your wife owns you, and your husband owns you too. Both own each other, is my belief on this. You?