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First up, me and my boyfriend been together for nearly 1 and a half years
We usually see each other once or twice a week and calls me everyday
But recently we have been seeing each other nearly everyday
he's mostly the one initiating the calls everyday and asking me to go out nearly everyday this week and he's still very affectionate - still hugs and kiss me whenever we are together and he would put his arm around me or hold my hand in public
But when he called me last night, we had this conversation that made think he's unhappy being with me:
Him - im gonna be honest.. you're quite controlling. Even my mum noticed.
Me - how?
Him - you are kinda controlling. Like today i told u that i wanna get tipsy at work and u keep asking why and saying "no dont do that".. i can do whatever i feel like. Its for fun. Any guy would run away if they think their girlfriend is trying to control us
Me - im not trying to control u
Him - it feels like it. And you always take things seriously. Joke around more. Its not fun you know?
Me - so u think im boring?
Him - well yeah sometimes. You dont talk much. You dont joke around. You take evrything srsly. And that gets boring
Me - so you're not happy with me?
Him - i didn't say that. Im happy with u. you're the best partner I've ever had and thats the truth. Its just that i needed to tell u all this. I dont like being controlled and i want u to talk more. Sometimes i feel like im talking to a brick wall. You only talk if i talk to you. You only respond. Its frustrating sometimes.
Me - ok. Sounds like ur not happy with me. Just leave if u dont wanna be with me
Him - no im not saying that. you're taking it the wrong way. I am happy with u. If i wasn't, i wouldn't be with you. Simple. If i dont want something, i dont want it. I would leave. If i didn't care, i wouldn't call back when you're pissed off. I wanna be with u but i just wish you would talk more. You have good qualities like you're loyal, you're a good girl, you're good listener and everything else you're good.

Me and my boyfriend been together for 1.5 years
I have met his parents once few months ago and took his mum out for dinner and only met his dad briefly
So then today, its Christmas eve and he invited me to go to his parents place for Christmas lunch and plus his mum kept asking him about me and wants me to come
And so we went there
And i saw his parents and younger brother
They were friendly and asking me few questions about my family and all
And making sure I drink and eat a lot
Etc etc
Then when we left, his parents hugged me and said "come back next time yeah"
So then after we left their place, my boyfriend told me that his parents asking him questions when I went to the bathroom
Like these:
"What background is she again?"
"What religion is she?"
"Is she controlling? Coz i can see it by her face"
"Is she going to be your last girlfriend?"
"Is she always quiet like this?"
Does this mean they dont like me?
Why do they ask him those questions when im not there?

My ex broke up with me and he wouldn't say why. I know his parents didn't like me so I'm pretty sure that's why he dumped me and he said he still loved me and he said he wasn't over me at all. I was his first girlfriend actually, but we aren't friends. Although, for the longest time after we broke up he'd go to the library every day during lunch knowing I'd be there and he never goes to the library hardly.

He stopped going and I know for a fact that his best friend stops him from going in there because whenever my ex is with his friend he is nowhere to be seen. His friend controls him and tells him what to do. Although, when my ex is by himself I will bump him into him all the time or even if he's with somebody besides his best friend. I've also caught my ex staring at me a few times. The other day I was talking to a close friend of mine named Rebecca and he was standing near us talking to some of his friends and I noticed he started to move closer to me and last week I was talking to her and my ex and his friend kept walking past us and they'd turn around and stare at us. Also, every time he will walk by me with one of his friends, they'll both get really quiet and then start talking again after they've passed me.

He also hasn't talked to a single girl since we broke up, he hasn't flirted with anybody or tried to get somebody new while, his friend got out of a relationship not too long ago too and he flirts with every girl now. Does he still have feelings for me?

Nelson is 23 years old. He's 5'2, brown skinned, and has a face that looks like a 16 year old's. He never had vagin*al sex with a woman and never had a girlfriend. When Nelson was 14 he had oral s*x with a 16 year old girl in high school. The girl performed oral on him, made out with him, and sucked his neck. Nelson felt wonderful but she'd often call him ugly, stupid, and b*itch. A month after they had intercouse he overheard the girl saying that he looked like a child when naked, had a baby pelns and laughed and joked with her friends about how he was a such a V*rgin and pathetic. He also discovered she had a boyfriend and was practicing s*x acts on him to try on her boyfriend a month later. People would often laugh and tease Nelson for being short and childish. In high school Nelson was long term friends with a guy who was 6'1, popular, and had several girlfriends and was a well known foot bag player. Nelson always saw girls fall in love with this dude, love him while he was always overlooked and put down.


Nelson tries to be a kind, loving person but he has his moments. One time he lost all control of his emotions and started sobbing uncontrollably in public. He tries his best to control his emotions but he can't mask his true feelings in public. Nelson feels strong emotions and sometimes they explode in his heart. Nelson is highly intelligent. He makes A's and B's in science, math, and goes to college to be a doctor.

My boyfriend and I were sitting next to each other with our phones and a message popped up on mine from a group of girls that were trying to organise a hiking trip. My guy asked casually who I was chatting to and so I told him, he wasn't controlling or anything just curious cause the phone kept going off every few seconds

I said to him out of curiosity just because I'm nosey lol - Who was the last person you messaged with other than me?

He said Melissa. (Melissa is an ex girlfriend who he was only with for 2 months about 2 years ago. They stayed friends since then as she had supported him with some personal issues he was having back then, so I can understand why he has kept a friendship with this particular ex.)

They never meet up physically and only message each other every now and then. He showed me because he must have sensed that I was feeling a little uneasy. I could see they only message each other a few times every few weeks and their is absolutely no flirting going on. She knows about me and he has asked her to come over with her kids for a BBQ and to meet me so there are no secrets floating about.

When he said he last messaged Melissa I casually asked how she was, he said she is okay, going through a little bit of a hard time and he passed me the phone and said to read the messages so I did. She drives trucks for a job and there were messages about how she had recently had a truck accident and was out of a job, feeling a little depressed and now has to go to court for it. He messaged to her that there may be an opening for a truck driver job at his work and that he would try and help her get in at his work.

I did ask him if why he felt he needed to help her and he said she is a friend, I'm just being nice. I asked if he still had any feelings for her and he said NO and then I asked if she got a job there they would be seeing each other every day at work, is there a risk of them becoming close again, he said NO. Should I be worried