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First, No one was rude or inappropriate in private or in public. People were very kind and supportive.

Second, I think I may have inadvertently implied by hastily getting rid of the earlier post bc I was UNCOMFORTABLE , that there is somehow something wrong if someone happens to be COMFORTABLE, wearing this kind of dress. I in NO WAY meant to give that impression. I have my own hauntings to work through but it is entirely personal.

... I was not brought up to appreciate my body- entirely polite way of putting it. The environment was intensely hostile. I don’t believe that was the intention, and until I moved out a few years ago, it was “normal”. People can care and still harm. To an extent, it was useful, bc I wasn’t obsessing and could focus on strengthening other aspects. However, after a point I just quietly hatred myself and detached. I am learning to reconnect.

.. Gag has been really helpful in that regard. Not some journey to feel “hot”- It’s nice to not feel like a monster of course.. This is about not feeling shame, when objectively there’s nothing unethical happening. Not about cleavage or no cleavage, just being a relatively normal person. Too lengthy to get into here. I don’t want to stray off topic. Maybe a My Take Sometime.

Point is, I see NOTHING wrong in appreciating the female or male firm and dressing as if you are not ashamed of your body.

Thirdly , I simply can’t be sure why I am uncomfortable. I don’t think the dress is obscene.. I think It more the internal judgement stemming from the past, that I don’t want to be a slave to. I am developing an appreciation of the female form that I previously lacked. I know I have spoken negatively and I think it’s inappropriate. It sheds a bad message.

—As for the 👗.. I think If I was uneasy I ought not have posted.. Posting THEN pulling bc it’s scandalous 🤭🤭 was just dumb and immature.

I hope I didn’t offend any Women by being a dork.. You guys were really helpful.
TY 🌟🌟

So I know this dude for around roughly 5-6 years and started developing feelings around the 2nd year of knowing him. A few times I have heard that he has had a crush on me but never said so because he thought I had no feelings for him again. Let me remind you that I have been liking this dude for 4 years and have told him around 6 times during that span.. One being recently. He sends a lot of mixed signals as in winking, flirting, asking questions about my crush although he knows its him, gets touchy with me and such but yet he's dating these other girls and talking about his new girl and leaves me on read and takes hours to reply but still comes and tell me that I look like a whole meal. Opinions on y he is doing this or am I basically a clown?