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Sometimes I'll take advantage of my size and appearance to make people nervous. I do it just to laugh at some of the reactions. There's no harmful intent here. I don't actually want to hurt anyone, and if it got to an extent to where they were offended or hurt, then I'd let them know I was just messing with them and try and make peace. If I can create a scenario in which we both laugh and become friends after, then I'll do that.

With girls, it's pretty damn easy lol. I'll start to do everything really forcefully to an extent of what some would consider obnoxious. An example-- if I see a girl in lecture, and I thought she was cute, then I'll pretty much slam open the door and walk over to sit down right to sit next to her. I'll pull out the chair real loudly to sit and then slam my books on the desk. Let out a long drawn out sigh and start making small talk while giving her some strong eye contact the whole time lmfao. As a guy, if you can pull this off right, and then start flirting after, you have such a strong advantage lol. It's funny as hell seeing that initial reaction though. Just completely catching her off guard and making her mind go from 0 to 100 instantly by aggressively hitting on her lmao.

With guys, it's even more obvious because they're always trying to match up with you. So an example, we'll be in a group, and I'll suddenly start asking questions about him and shift my body language towards his direction so it's sort of personal. Then I'll raise my voice a little and I'll know if he's passive just by the way he reacts to this. If he tries to automatically match my voice tone and my body language in an attempt to reciprocate, then he's passive an following my lead because he's uncomfortable. He's trying to match up. If he doesn't shift anything about in his demenaor to match mine, then he's solid. Sometimes I'll even get called out with a "calm down bro lol". In that case, we can both just laugh at the situation.