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My ex-girlfriend texted me for the first time in 3 weeks. She wanted to talk and said someone in her family died. I still love this girl and am very torn on what to do. After our breakup she contacted me non-stop which I didn't answer, needed space and thought no contact would be best. Then after multiple calls, she finally left a voicemail which she sounded sad and that she really wanted to talk to me, and it was about one of her sick relatives. I answered and made the mistake of saying call me if you need anything. Which she did almost every day... I ignored. She got upset, and basiclly started calling me an ass cuz our meeting dates werent working out. She send me a final text 3 weeks ago saying she doesn't want to meet up or be friends with someone who treats her this way, which i dont get cuz she dumped me. Yesterday she texted me again wanting to to talk about about her family death, which I'm not sure if its just an excuse, but I also feel bad. She asked me to call her, and then after a while said nvm. I do want to talk to her but dont want to be a sound board whenever she needs the moral support. I have a feelling if I do text her, she will call me and want to talk.

My girlfriend and I had been dating for 2 years, (all long distance). We visited each other one last time before we were going to move in together this summer. This trip made me realize that I was not going to be happy with her though. She was overlly jealous, said "she wanted to move in with me to keep other girls away", and she didn't want me meeting other people in college (even guys). I was staying with her to make her happy and not me. I noticed I changed who I was for her, to make her happy, and she wasn't right for me. I couldn't be myself and she didn't want anyone else to be involved in our lives besides us.

I felt bad about breaking up after 2 years but she reacted by telling all her friends/family I cheated on her. (I never did anything to make her think this and was always faithful)

So, did I do the right thing by breaking it off before we moved in together in the summer? She called me a coward for "not fighting for our relationship", so I need honest opinions.