Search Results: holding the door for a girl

Why do nice guys always get burned so god damn hard?

I save a guy's life by calling the police when he texts a friend of mine with a suicide note. He responds by spending the next month hitting on my friends saying he will cut himself unless they sleep with him to make...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Do you think guys holding doors for girls is sexist?

Some feminists argue that it patronizing women and that a lot of chivalry is archaic and needs to go...what do you think?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Perfect date, weird reaction at the kiss

I went to a first date with a nice blond girl.We had great fun and laughing..at some point we both came very close..i was holding her,teasing her and she was gazing me.It seemed she wanted a kiss.I drove her back at home...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Anyone tired of being single? Of putting in effort, without any results?

I'm so tired. I'm surrounded by couples, holding hands, flirting, PDA-ing, etc. I just woke up from a nightmare with my last ex in it (where things ended before anything began -- so not really a relationship) and now I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

How do I become a jerk?

Hey. Basically my last lot of trysts have been utterly disappointing. I'm probably gonig to have to be honest and say I'm not especially hot. Not ugly but not hot, at least ugly is sort of interesting in its own way. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

After three dates he got weird.... HELP

I went out this this guy that I met on CL. I know.. what your thinking... am I crazy... maybe for considering meeting the guy from off there with no mace or pocket knife. I am just seriously a laid back person and we...

tanglesofblondecurls

Xper 5 Age: 39

Girl's Behavior

I want to make him feel guilty so next time he won't hurt me like this for nothing

I (21) had a fight with my boyfriend (20) yesterday. We are almost 2 years old since we are together and our love has always been very strong .. however I am his first girlfriend and he is a bit inexperienced, so...

Yriuqni

Xper 7 Age: 36

Flirting

Guys: Cuddling stage. Does he like me or wants to hit it and quit it?

Let me start off by saying that I'm a 1st year in college and I've never kissed anyone and I'm still a virgin. there's this guy who has already slept with multiple girls since we got to college. at 1st he was just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Acts like he likes me, just wants to be friends.

hey! thanks for checking out my question! I met this guy about two months ago.. we met on the web and met up. Things were going really well! The first night we met, he told me that he moves REALLY REALLY slow.. and I...

maryj420

Xper 5 Age: 38

Guy's Behavior

Does he like me? He keeps staring!

okay so I know no one really wants to read a huge summary so I'll make this short! I really need help! so its the beginning of the year and there is this guy in my class...words cannot describe how attractive he is. and...

fearless_7

Xper 5 Age: 32

Flirting

Is he interested or just up for a 1 night stand?

I'm in first year university and I'm staying in residence. The first week I noticed a cute guy from my residence always looking at me and smiling. He's the popular type who likes to party a lot but is really smart. I'm...

vanna11

Xper 5 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

Chivalry happenning today?

I'm asking because I'm curious, how must does it happen today especially to younger people (say your age/age group if you want) What I think: I think everyone should offer to open the door for EVERYONE, it shouldn't...

xLuana

Xper 3 Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

Why is holding the door open for women a bad thing?

Just got chewed out for holding the door open for these two girls. Normally if that had happened I'd probably would have closed the door on them but I'm tired so I just stood there and took it then wished them both a...

CarelessWhisper

Yoda Age: 32

Dating

What do you think of dating "rules"?

xLuana

Xper 3 Age: 31

Here's what I mean by dating rules: The guy asks the girl out, chooses where to go, goes to her house and picks her up and takes her to the place then all this chivalry stuff then he

Here's what I mean by dating rules:

The guy asks the girl out, chooses where to go, goes to her house and picks her up and takes her to the place then all this chivalry stuff then he has to pay for everything (that's really unfair to the guy...) then takes her home and well you get what I mean

I don't like dating rules not only are they too complicated but they have all these stupid gender roles and stereotypes

The rules say a girl can't ask a guy out - that's not good for anyone because it restricts the girl and puts pressure on the guy - actually where I live girls ask guys out all the time lol, but its different depending on where you live

The picking up thing, again its complicated and has gender roles, there are no "rules" on how you meet with a friend, so why a date?

The guy has to do all this holding doors open and stuff - its unfair to the guy and makes the girl feel weak

Then the guy has to pay for it all, that's what I find the most unfair of all, the one who asked should pay or it should be split but expecting the guy to pay just because he's the guy... is just wrong!

If a guy always paid for me... I would feel REALLY uncomfortable, I don't find a relationship where the guy does anything romantic at all, I like doing things for him, and it would be incredibly selfish of me to expect him to do everything! The thought of guys always having to pay makes me feel horrible inside to be honest

Thing is, so many guys let girls get away with that... they don't show any self-respect or believe the one-sided "it shows you care" stuff

And finally the going home... again complicated

Long story short, I don't like normal dating because its complicated and sexist, I prefer just to hang out - its like going out with a friend, I invite him out or he invites me, we decide where to go together, we go there and each pay for our own stuff, just like people who are just friends would

When it comes to paying, getting to the venue, and all that - we consider ourselves people, and so far I don't often get into arguments or anything, so its worked out great!

What do you think of the dating rules?

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Flirting

Did she want to see me?

I am so lost when it involves girls. My friend Christina had to see me to pick up something of hers I was holding for her. I called and told her to see me. She said oh I can't today I'm busy but I will tomorrow. Three...

WhatdoIdoN0w

Xper 3 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

What do you think about chivalry?

I believe it is very important and it is starting to die. Women and girls deserve the highest respect and they just aren't getting it anymore. You rarely see and guys holding doors, paying for meals etc. What do you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Things that made me think he might have considered me more than a friend. What is your take on this?

I worked with a guy this past summer (June-August...haven't seen him in 3 weeks because I went back to college). There were some things that made me think he might have considered me more than a friend. I only became...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

All you feminine guys out there (don't be afraid to admit it): help! Girls can pitch in, too :)

He's been my best friend since...ever. He has his feminine ways and has always been "one of the girls." He's not gay, though, that's for sure. This year he's been doing more things for me like carrying my books and...

Fizzypoprocks

Xper 5 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

What's your definition of classy?

Guys and Girls, how do you describe classy in the opposite gender? I feel like the term classy is a mixture of classic traditions and modern flair, so I would like to know what you think is classy now from the opposite...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Does he like me? I'm so confused!

I have been carpooling to class twice a week with this guy for two months. We just met through the class but we have been talking a lot in class and in the car, even though we don't really talk outside of class. He has...

Anonymous

(30-35)