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So the first guy, (Cade) he's been my best friend for years. We even dated briefly early on, it lasted aweek and we never kissed because I was too shy to even look at him and he thought I didn't want him to make a move. After that we didn't speak for a year. Now, years later we're closer than ever we say things like "I can't imagine who I'd be with out you" and "You're amazing" constantly. Well, recently I've developed feelings for one of his closest friends. (Truman) One night I decided I'd tell Cade about my feelings for Truman and he asked if I wanted to know what happened when Truman drove him home after we had all hung out. He tells me that the two of the rated me and Truman asked Cade if he had feelings for me. Truman &Cade both agreed that I'm a 9 and Cade told him that he has feeling for me. Here's the thing Cade has a girlfriend, but despite this he and I have been having really romantic conversations as of late. He even asked if we could strike a deal: that if I still haven't had my first kiss by senior year & he's single that we would do what he's always regretted not doing all those years ago. But he's also being my wingman on the Truman front, given me advice and given me the courage to talk to him. He's a lot like Cade, but he's also intellectually stimulating and mature. We've been texting & it's like we already know each other, he's been moving to sit with me in class and I've caught him looking up at me at random when he's across the room -usually he's smiling... I think I know what's best here, but I just want some confirmation from an outside party. To be clear though, I'm not a floosey of a teenager. Truman is the first actual crush I've had in years and Cade, well I buried those feelings a long time ago and now they are gnawing at me. I'd apprechiate some input.

So, I have never been the kind of girl to get serious. That's not to say that I haven't, I just prefer casual. I'm good at casual, comfortable with it, even. But I met this boy at university, and well, the first night he drove me home, and slept in the bed with me though nothing happened because I was two drunk. Fast forward a few days and we are hooking up- at first it wasn't great but he improved a lot to meet my tastes. It's been almost a month now and he's dropped the L-bomb and I've met his mother. Unfortunately, he recently got a concussion from rugby and he's been a bit of a bear- not texting, grumpy, etc. He called me from the hospital and I went to go stay with him.
I've met his friends, and the sex is (ball-slappingly hard and) great, and I really like him ( a lot), which scares me to no end. We've decided that we'll "cross that bridge when we get to it," because I told him that I tend to run when things get too serious. I don't know if I want a relationship, but I do want him... He makes me laugh and I'm happy around him, and he's said that he's happy around me. But, I'm worried that we might be cooling off because of school work and is that bad? I just need some clarity, any help at all would be greatly appreciated.

Also: He kissed another girl while still dating his last girlfriend, which worries me, but he seems sufficiently contrite. Another reason as to why I might be a tad hesitant!

For two weeks solid after our first initial date, which I met both his boys after the date, we talked, facebooked, texted, and snap chatted day and night while he was away at work. He has been home for four days now and i have yet to have a face to face anything with him. Very little phone talk and minimal texting. But everyday contact. We aren't having sex yet and he says that he wants to wait on that for awhile because he does not want to push me away after he gets it. Does he like me or his he playing? Im confused. He has not had a girlfriend in over a year. He has slept with lots of other girls tho like a side thing or flings. WTD?