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In my personal experience, I've been more successful when the girl has pursued me. Now, I've always asked the girl out in the end, but I give her time to show interest and basically give me the green light. When I don't care or give girls attention, they come to me.

I want to pursue women and others encourage me to, but I always fail. Waiting for the girl takes more time, sometimes a week and other times up to 2 months.

My friends often joke that girls don't know what they want, but when they do they're loyal and committed to making things work. I think that's true because my most recent girl did everything she could to get my attention. She chased me multiple times, was touchy very early, and would wave when I was far away. Yeah things ended because our careers were taking us different places, but it was a success because we spent quality time together. I don't even make it to the first date with girls I pursue. Well, I did one time, but that girl said I was husband material and not boyfriend material so she wanted someone else. Smh Her loss.

When pursuing women in person, 99.9% of the time they'd already know I liked them so they'd call me a "nice guy" and shoo me away. Online, usually via Tinder and Instagram DM, I used to say hey or what's up and wait for a response. That did nothing 50% of the time. Then I'd evolved say something witty like "I'm going to Whole Foods. Want anything?" or ask them something about their interests in profile or bio. These type of messages got replies about 75% of the time, but the conversations normally dry up within a month. I'm pretty much set on waiting on girls, but if you have any tips on how I could improve my chances when being the pursuer, I'd appreciate them.

I'm an 18 year old guy. Well as a toddler I'd wink at women. Years ago I started doing somethings. Like I'd try to impress girls, female teachers tell them "I'm six foot" stand taller. Try to make them laugh smile, make good eye contact with them and if they're open I'll move in closer to them. I'll try to make eye contact with them and make good eye contact. Even with female teachers I'll get shy have a hard time making eye contact in the hall and even say hi, get really shy. I was offered a ride by a girl I accepted it. I'd tease a girl by shining a laser pointer in her eyes. Call a couple of girls short. Offered to help out my teacher when she was moving. She was asking another student and I tried to her attention and offered to help. Get closer to a girl if she's receptive. Whisper something in her ear. Laugh at female teachers jokes loudly. I said "you never age" to one of them. I said to one "you can be my women crush Wednesday". Tell a Red Cross nurse I'm blushing because of her when she said my cheeks were red. One time I spooned with a woman when her husband was around at a BBQ party. If a woman makes eye contact with me or I catch her staring I'll make strong eye contact back. I'll try to establish eye contact. I might keep on breaking it and look back at them when they're staring. Am I just friendly with women or would I be considered a big flirt.