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My boyfriend get a little weird when he's high. He's self conscious about this and knows that he does act a little weird sometimes but I don't care because who doesn't act weird when they're high?
There have been 2 situations where I've unintentionally made him feel uncomfortable and made him feel like he was being made fun of and I realized that what I said was insensitive and I didn't even notice it. I can be a little blunt and not really think about I say sometimes so I apologized.
Last night my boyfriend and I got high again and he was moving around a little too much and ended up knocking my laptop off my bed and breaking it. When I go to pick it up, I tell him somewhere along the lines of, "Can you calm down now?"
He said that he felt like I hurt his feelings in the way I said it because he said that I sounded like I couldn't handle him anymore or something.
When I said it, I meant to it in the way that someone tells someone else to stop what it was they were doing to cause them to break one for their things. I think what he her advice in my voice was the annoyance and panic I my voice because I was silently freaking out and worrying about my laptop. I didn't yell at him and say that it was his fault because accidentshe do happen. I wasn't even angry at him!
I just wanna know whether what I said was insensitive or to whether I was lashing put at him in a way that made fun of him. He says the way I said it made him feel like one of those times that I made him do feel bad about acting a little weird.

So, one of my brother's good friends tried to kill herself yesterday so she's, obviously, going through a lot. Last night he wrote her a message on FB about how he's there if she wanted to talk and all this other stuff and she never replied. Today he just passed the last section of his GED and he ended up messaging her, again, on Facebook being all excited that he passed. I understand he's excited but I thought it was SO insensitive considering the fact the she tried to kill herself 24 hours ago and told him he should apologize.

Do you think it's insensitive?

Target has been getting accused of being insensitive and mocking a mental illness OCD, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, for carrying these sweaters. Which say "OCD, Obsessive Christmas Disorder". People are demanding they remove them from the shelves.
Instead of caving to political pressure, Target stands firm and is still selling them.

Do you find it offensive? Should Target pull these sweaters off the shelves? Are people overreacting? Would you buy one? Is this ableist?

More info:
https://m.nydailynews.com/news/national/target-criticized-selling-ocd-christmas-jumpers-article-1.2432109