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I’m 15. Ok so a little background story. My mom and dad met when they were 13 but officially got together when they were 17 and had me when my mom was 19 and my dad was 20. They broke up when I was 3 months old because my mom cheated. I was always a daddy’s girl and always wanted daddy from the get go. I visited my mom every other weekend up until she got married when she was 22 and had 2 more kids, she didn’t want to see me anymore but I saw her like once a month. (This was 2004-2006). I last saw my two brothers when they were under the age of 2. And they are currently 11 and 12 years old. My mom went through a mental breakdown in 2007 and my dad got full custody of me in 2007 and he also met my step mom. They have been together since 2007 and had my cute baby brother who turns 3 this year. I count my step mom as my mother. I sometimes talk to my mother on social media but I haven’t seen her since 2007. My mom invited me on a trip to disneyworld with my brothers (her 2 kids), her boyfriend, my aunt (who was a teenager last time I saw her), her 9 year old daughter (never met), her mom and dad and my uncle and his 3 year old daughter. It’s a 8 day trip. My dad said it’s up to me and both him and my step mom lectured me on how my mom is and what can happen and I kinda think it will be awkward since I don’t really know anybody. But they know each other all so well.

I have a problem with pretending my feelings don't matter and only other people's feelings matter...
My sister has a problem with pretending only her feelings matter and other people's feelings don't matter.
I would try hard to make her happy.
She will try hard to make herself happy, regardless of my feelings. When i don't please her because it would mean my children will be neglected or i would have to ignore the fact that i don't have much time or money... she will be angry and give me the cold treatment like i am worthless because she is the God that determines my worth...
I don't know what to do?
I have seen many mental health professionals because of what she put me through.
She has stolen someone's husband, cheated on him, ignored her child and treats him like a burden, and cheated on all her exes. She is currently married and cheats on the current guy. In other words, she has no morals. As long as she is happy she can do it. She thinks her problem is everyone else's problem, and when they don't think so... she will hate them.

What can i do? I don't think she is right. I Don't think her problem is my problem, i have my own problems.