Search Results: scared of commitment

He needs time, what can I do?

I was dating this guy for 7 months, but now he is scared about commitment. He ask me for some time apart, but its been 1 month! I asked to him if I have to move on or what but he is not sure yet! But he is texting me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why am I so scared of commitment/relationships?

I’m talking to this guy and things are going really well and I really like him but thinking about being in a serious relationship with him gives me anxiety and makes the feel sick and I know this is because of commitment...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I don’t know what happened. Why would he just stop talking to me like that?

I was friends with this guy from college. We weren’t close but we enjoyed the each other’s company. He started making it obvious that he liked me more than that. At the time I was still unsure about him so I didn’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

To be or not to be... need advice asap?

i started texting this guys a while back and he's actually amazing one night while we were taking I asked him who he liked and he said you to be honest I was excited haha I told him how I felt and we kinda go closer and...

Shelley1995

Xper 4 Age: 25

Does he really like me, or is he just stringing me along? What do I do?

I’ve had a thing with this guy for a few months. He was away travelling till the start of this year, while he was travelling he asked me about meeting up when he got home. He now works in my work so we’ve been hanging...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why are guys so bipolar?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Mistakes That Guys Make On Internet Dating

I am a PRO!!! I've been internet dating since the beginning, when Meg Ryan messaged Tom Hanks and it pinged "You've got Mail!" Some of you probably don't remember this movie, but it was pretty cutting edge... in 1998....

newbie2015

Xper 7 Age: 47

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He wants a relationship with me but is scared of commitment?

So basically what I know is this guy I like kind of treated me more like a girlfriend than a friend but kept it subtle. One day he became so shy he could barely talk to me anymore. Now what I hear is that he does like me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, How to dtr without with out scaring a guy off? Not necessarily a commitment but to let them know that you only want to focus on them?

The guy I'm seeing hasn't been divorced very long and even though I'd like to be in a serious relationship with him one day. I know things do not need to be rushed and I would want him to be sure that he really wants me...

Wst1609

Xper 5 Age: 35

Please help, will this feeling go away?

So there's this guy that I'm dating, he's beyond kind and he's extremely smart... It was a welcomed surprise because I've only had the pleasure of being with manipulating/cheating/abusive boyfriends. The one draw back is...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did I scare him?

I don't know if I'm coming on too strong to him in terms of how I feel about him. We have been together for years but it's always been a relationship of commitment issues along with other factors. But a couple of months...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Just a vent but feel free to leave some advice or an opinion. Am I losing my mind?

I'll start from the beginning- Me & this guy dated two years ago for a month after meeting on a dating website and we hit it off, conversation flowed, same humour & interests. But we agreed neither of us were ready after...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is with everyone wanting open relationships?

One time, a guy I was interested in suggested an open relationship--something I can't even stand. I immediately rejected him because I'm not accepting that label as an excuse for him to fuck around with other girls. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What usually causes a guy to be afraid of commitment?

Say he meets the girl, he gets to know her a bit, they hang out and stuff and he starts to really like her. He feels like they would turn into a long term relationship but that’s the moment he disappears. I get that new...

TsundereMatrix

Influencer Age: 33

Do you ever look back and wonder why you still love a person who was so wrong for you?

This guy (who's now my ex) is confident and he has many friends. He had something I lacked with was his sociable personality and cheerfulness, on the otherhand I was introverted and a little on the depressive side. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Afraid of commitment?

Would a guy get scared of starting a relationship with a girl who he’s interested in but has never been with someone before? Let’s say he does get scared, what can the girl do to let him know it’s ok and she wants to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Why would a girl wanna go out with me?

Now, Now before you go jumping to conclusions, just hear me out please. Sometimes when I’m chatting online girls and guys alike some say they think I’m an awesome dude and are surprised i haven't got a girlfreind, now...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hung up on "ex", making a fool of myself, so I've decided to just lay all my feelings out there so I can move on/not expecting anything... advice?

background: I'm very guarded/commitment-phobic & had never been in a relationship (I'm 22) & met this guy, we were connected immediately. I kept him at a sexual level but he pushed for more commitment, I gave it a chance...

Anonymous

(30-35)