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So I work with this girl at the bar. She has a boyfriend. I KNOW I KNOW bad idea...anyways she's totally cute, I have a huge crush on her...she doesn't know this tho...

here is my story/questions...she told me she thought I was a stud and very attractive and we flirt EVERY time we work together and every second we can (we work at a bar together). She consistantly asks me if I would date her if she didn't have a boyfriend. She has told my sister she could see herself dating me. She's told my roomates that she would date me...blah blah. When she straight up asked me if I would date her if she was single I kinda brushed it off. Why? Because I'm not the type of guy to barge in a relationship she has been in for 2 years.

What do I think of the situation? I think she's bored of her boyfriend, that she likes the excitment I bring when we work together, the chase, the fun...its just different than what she is used to. I'm 24, she's 22. I don't ask much about her boyfriend, except about his car lol - we both drive the same car and we both ahve put work into it. I do not know him personally, if that matters at all.

Anyways girls/guys how would you take this, how do you see this. Is she just playing games. she's said she is unsure about her boyfriend but I think she just says that to string me along and keep us flirting...i have shown no real indication that iw ould date her or that I take her seriouslty when we flirt because she has a bf...i mean I've never straight up said "i would date you" as she does to me...she is a very flirtatious girl but I can tell she is different around me. Some girl came up to me and I talked to her for a while and she was like so what was that all about? I was like I don't know her friend thinks I'm cute and she wanted me to go over to her later and say what's up, she (the girl I have a crush on) told me that there's no way that girkls friend could think I'm cute because she has already "claimed me".

I love flirting with her and I just don't know what to get out of this...i mean its fun, she's fun, she's different, but the boyfriend is just in teh way and I don't want to be that guy or a rebound if they do break up...how do I go about this situation...how are your eacting to what she is saying to me and my friends...what about her jealousy...girls would you do all of this just for fun and to get a kick out of it...ive clearly shown I'm not desperate, that I can handle not being with her and that I'm independant...i just don't know how to figure this whole thing out, what is she doing here...is she looking for me to say I'd date her and then for her to break up with ehr bf? I don't know much about their relationship otehr than what she says. I'm ust looking for guys/girls insight on this situation and how you would taek what she is saying to me...

thanks in advanced!

So I met this Korean girl today for a casual meeting at the college, not a date or anything. The premise was to help her with her English, though we spent most of the time talking and the only English I "taught" was when she couldn't understand a word I said or something like that. Anyway, I noticed that she's very open. She has open body language, leans forward the whole time, no arm crossing or other closed off signs. She often touched her hair, running her fingers through it and stuff (she didn't do that the whole twirl her hair around her finger thing though). At one point, she asked if I was thirsty and then bought me a coffee at the nearby cafe. She said it was for me spending time with her.

We touched a few times accidentally and she never pulled away even when our hands were against each other for like 10 seconds as I showed her something. When we left, I asked if she had fun and she said "Yes, thanks to you! I have lots of fun around you!" When we parted, I shook her hand and after a few seconds (she wouldn't let go), she initiated a hug with me.

Here's the problem: she has a boyfriend way back in Korea. She's never mentioned him to me, though to be fair I haven't asked. I only know because of her "in a relationship with (Korean guy)" status on Facebook. Regardless, I have absolutely no clue where I stand. I'm meeting her for lunch next week and seeing where things go from there. Does she like me? What should I do?