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Okay, he and I have been friends for a few months, and I've completely fallen in love with him. He's amazing, he has the same plans for the future as I do, and we're both athiests. He says he thinks he is gay, which is a thing that confuses me, because he keeps sending be confusing signals. I've been having some personal issues, and I've been texting him for help, and he always says how he really cares about me, and that he wants for me to be okay. The other day, as soon as the school bell rung, he jumped over multiple chairs, politely waited for me to talk to my friend, and then asked me if I was okay, and then said he would try to be on Instagram later so we can text. We're on Thanksgiving break, and I bravely texted him saying that I really cared about him, too, and I wanted to know how he was doing. Two days pass and then he finally leaves me on read... Then, a few days later, I text him asking if he wanted to go to the skating rink, and, he leaves me on read. And, I overthink everything, so I really need your advice. I really love this guy, but does he only say he cares about me to make me feel better?

We’ve all dated those people who make you question everything. Maybe they’re shy, hard to read, sarcastic, play the hot and cold game. Whatever it is we’ve all been in that almost relationship that just leaves you questioning “is this person even into me”.

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Have you ever sent mixed signals? How have other people handled it? How would you want to be addressed?