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Is he arrogant/completely uninterested in becoming friends? Or is he attracted to me but avoiding me 'cos he has a girlfriend?
There is this guy that works at my cafe. Even though I'm pretty shy I am friendly with him. We live in the same apartment complex and occasionally bump into each other in the lift.
At the cafe however it is a little bit different. It gets awkward!
Sometimes we accidentally make eye contact from across the room and then look away. I sometimes see him looking at me from across the room.

Yesterday I dropped a sheet off the balcony and it landed in his backyard. I went down with my male flatmate and as soon as we knocked on the door the gym neighbour opened the door, mid-convo with his friend. Inside sitting in the loungeroom was his girlfriend and another couple. He barely acknowledged my flatmate and just handed him the sheet and went to shut the door on him. So my flatmate was trying to be friendly with him and i was standing right next to him. My neighbour was so rude! He could not have been more hostile! It was like he just wanted us to go away and just wasn't interested in being friendly at all. My flatmate asked, "So do u know what time it might have fallen down?"
And my neighbour replied, "No idea buddy!" like really condescending.
Whilst standing at the door my neighbour would only look at my flatmate - he refused to acknowledge me let alone say hello! He gave me a half-smile right at the end b4 he closed the door.
The time after that at the cafe he ignored me.
But then the next time I bumped into him in the lift in our apartment complex, he smiled and said hello and "see ya later."
I was polite back but made no effort to have a conversation.

What is he thinking?
Is he arrogant and completely uninterested in becoming friends? Or is he attracted to me but avoiding me 'cos he has a girlfriend?
There is this guy that works at my cafe. Even though I'm pretty shy I am friendly with him. We live in the same apartment complex and occasionally bump into each other in the lift.
At the cafe however it is a little bit different. It gets awkward!
Sometimes we accidentally make eye contact from across the room and then look away. I sometimes see him looking at me from across the room.

Yesterday I dropped a sheet off the balcony and it landed in his backyard. I went down with my male flatmate and as soon as we knocked on the door the gym neighbour opened the door, mid-convo with his friend. Inside sitting in the loungeroom was his girlfriend and another couple. He barely acknowledged my flatmate and just handed him the sheet and went to shut the door on him. So my flatmate was trying to be friendly with him and i was standing right next to him. My neighbour was so rude! He could not have been more hostile! It was like he just wanted us to go away and just wasn't interested in being friendly at all. My flatmate asked, "So do u know what time it might have fallen down?"
And my neighbour replied, "No idea buddy!" like really condescending.
Whilst standing at the door my neighbour would only look at my flatmate - he refused to acknowledge me let alone say hello! He gave me a half-smile right at the end b4 he closed the door.
The time after that at the cafe he ignored me.
But then the next time I bumped into him in the lift in our apartment complex, he smiled and said hello and "see ya later."
I was polite back but made no effort to have a conversation...

Is he self-absorbed and arrogant and completely uninterested in becoming friends? Or is he attracted to me but avoiding me 'cos he has a girlfriend?
There is this guy that works at my gym. Even though I'm pretty shy I am friendly with him. We live in the same apartment complex and occasionally bump into each other in the lift.
At the gym however it is a little bit different. It gets awkward!
Sometimes we accidentally make eye contact from across the room and then look away. I sometimes see him looking at me from across the room.

Yesterday I dropped a sheet off the balcony and it landed in his backyard. I went down with my male flatmate and as soon as we knocked on the door the gym neighbour opened the door, mid-convo with his friend. Inside sitting in the loungeroom was his girlfriend and another couple. He barely acknowledged my flatmate and just handed him the sheet and went to shut the door on him. So my flatmate was trying to be friendly with him and i was standing right next to him. My neighbour was so rude! He could not have been more hostile! It was like he just wanted us to go away and just wasn't interested in being friendly at all. My flatmate asked, "So do u know what time it might have fallen down?"
And my neighbour replied, "No idea buddy!" like really condescending.
Whilst standing at the door my neighbour would only look at my flatmate - he refused to acknowledge me let alone say hello! He gave me a half-smile right at the end b4 he closed the door.
The time after that at the gym he ignored me.
But then the next time I bumped into him in the lift in our apartment complex, he smiled and said hello and "see ya later."
I was polite back but made no effort to have a conversation...

and completely uninterested in becoming friends? There is this guy that works at my gym. Even though I'm pretty shy I am friendly with him. We live in the same apartment complex and occasionally bump into each other in the lift.
At the gym however it is a little bit different. It gets awkward!
Sometimes we accidentally make eye contact from across the room and then look away.

Yesterday I dropped a sheet off the balcony and it landed in his backyard. I went down with my male flatmate and as soon as we knocked on the door the gym neighbour opened the door, mid-convo with his friend. Inside sitting in the loungeroom was his girlfriend and another couple. He barely acknowledged my flatmate and just handed him the sheet and went to shut the door on him. So my flatmate was trying to be friendly with him and i was standing right next to him. My neighbour was so rude! He could not have been more hostile! It was like he just wanted us to go away and just wasn't interested in being friendly at all. My flatmate asked, "So do u know what time it might have fallen down?"
And my neighbour replied, "No idea buddy!" like really condescending.
Whilst standing at the door my neighbour would only look at my flatmate - he refused to acknowledge me let alone say hello! He gave me a half-smile right at the end b4 he closed the door.
The time after that at the gym he ignored me.
But then the next time I bumped into him in the lift in our apartment complex, he smiled and said hello and "see ya later."
I was polite back but made no effort to have a conversation...