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so I was married to an abusive husband, and I became really good friends with this guy, we later ended up admitting our feelings for each other and he told me I was absolutely gorgeous. we decided to just stay friends out of respect for my marriage and I tried to get my husband to sort out his anger, me and this guy stayed friends going for walks etc but never let our feelings get in the way, I tried helping him get a girlfriend, he always said he although he wasn't a vrigin, his next sex he wanted to be his wife ( he is a Christian) anyway forward on a couple of month after having my last straw with my husband we split up and he is out of my life. me and my friend on a walk one evening end up hugging lots and he kisses me head and I can feel we are going to kiss but it doesn't happens but he does say cute things like ' I'd be in a relationship with a woman that has come out of a marriage if I loved her' , then a couple of weeks later we get flirty over Snapchat and then I bump Into him whilst drunk, we start hugging and stuff but next thing he is kissing my neck and touching me he freaks out and steps back then goes back and kisses me and touches me again. when I get back home I ask him what would you do to me he says I'd kiss you. I then don't hear from him for two months, he avoids me in every way possible delete me off Facebook won't reply to my messages. I found out he has been doing coke and ectasy and he keeps trying to get this girl that he turned out when he was sober because ' I am just not attracted to her' (she kept asking him out) I don't get it because after we done our stuff I told him I'm ok with being a casual thing despite our feelings or just staying friends. but he completely ignored me, but then when he gets on his drugs he keeps trying to bed this girl. I know when he gets drunk/drugs he does say I need to bed ' a s*** t'. so why won't he do it with me? The other day we spent untill 5am talking to each other then he just went quiet again xx

While I was in an abusive marriage I got feelings for someone
•he admitted he had feelings for me too
• we decided to not act upon our feelings but became close friends ( meeting up for walks playing Xbox etc)
• my marriage breaks down and I kick my husband. out
• a month after this my friend and I go for a walk he keeps hugging me and holding my face kisses my head we nearly kiss
• we start getting flirty over Snapchat
• I bump into him drunk one night and he grabs my arse kisses my neck and we kiss heavily, he freaks out and says this is a bad idea but then oushes me back against a fence and kisses me hard again. he has to go back inside as his mate is inside and I highly suspect he is ordering drugs. when I get home I ask him what would he do to me, he says he would kiss me then I don't hear from him till the next day
• he says he can't remember a thing
• a week goes by so I message him on Snapchat and we start sending sexy messages and he implies he'd like me to come to his house but then freaks out and says he too drunk to fool around.
• I don't hear from him for a whole month despite me telling him in not looking to pin him down I'm happy for just sex or we can forget it and act like it never happened ( he still doesn't reply)
• I find out he's been taking drugs ( coke and ectasy)
• last week I message him asking him to please get back to me I'm worried about him, he says he's gone Into hiding but he will be back
• yesterday I messaged him saying that I was going to drop some sauce by and he said please don't worry he will feel guilty, I asked would he like to go for coffee soon he said yeah sure maybe, so I said how about next Wednesday he says honestly probably not but thanks
• I say if you want me to go away you can just say, he tells me he just needs time to sort himself out but he WILL be back and that he doesn't want me to leave him alone
I don't know what's going on, does he like me? he's quite a big guy I know he is also self conscious of his body

while I was in an abusive marriage I got feelings for someone
•he admitted he had feelings for me too
• we decided to not act upon our feelings but became close friends ( meeting up for walks playing Xbox etc)
• my marriage breaks down and I kick my husband. out
• a month after this my friend and I go for a walk he keeps hugging me and holding my face kisses my head we nearly kiss
• we start getting flirty over Snapchat
• I bump into him drunk one night and he grabs my arse kisses my neck and we kiss heavily, he freaks out and says this is a bad idea but then oushes me back against a fence and kisses me hard again. he has to go back inside as his mate is inside and I highly suspect he is ordering drugs. when I get home I ask him what would he do to me, he says he would kiss me then I don't hear from him till the next day
• he says he can't remember a thing
• a week goes by so I message him on Snapchat and we start sending sexy messages and he implies he'd like me to come to his house but then freaks out and says he too drunk to fool around.
• I don't hear from him for a whole month despite me telling him in not looking to pin him down I'm happy for just sex or we can forget it and act like it never happened ( he still doesn't reply)
• I find out he's been taking drugs ( coke and ectasy)
• last week I message him asking him to please get back to me I'm worried about him, he says he's gone Into hiding but he will be back
• yesterday I messaged him saying that I was going to drop some sauce by and he said please don't worry he will feel guilty, I asked would he like to go for coffee soon he said yeah sure maybe, so I said how about next Wednesday he says honestly probably not but thanks
• I say if you want me to go away you can just say, he tells me he just needs time to sort himself out but he WILL be back and that he doesn't want me to leave him alone
I don't know what's going on, does he like me? he's quite a big guy I know he is also self conscious of his body

• While I was in an abusive marriage I got feelings for someone
•he admitted he had feelings for me too
• we decided to not act upon our feelings but became close friends ( meeting up for walks playing Xbox etc)
• my marriage breaks down and I kick my husband. out
• a month after this my friend and I go for a walk he keeps hugging me and holding my face kisses my head we nearly kiss
• we start getting flirty over Snapchat
• I bump into him drunk one night and he grabs my arse kisses my neck and we kiss heavily, he freaks out and says this is a bad idea but then oushes me back against a fence and kisses me hard again. he has to go back inside as his mate is inside and I highly suspect he is ordering drugs. when I get home I ask him what would he do to me, he says he would kiss me then I don't hear from him till the next day
• he says he can't remember a thing
• a week goes by so I message him on Snapchat and we start sending sexy messages and he implies he'd like me to come to his house but then freaks out and says he too drunk to fool around.
• I don't hear from him for a whole month despite me telling him in not looking to pin him down I'm happy for just sex or we can forget it and act like it never happened ( he still doesn't reply)
• I find out he's been taking drugs ( coke and ectasy)
• last week I message him asking him to please get back to me I'm worried about him, he says he's gone Into hiding but he will be back
• yesterday I messaged him saying that I was going to drop some sauce by and he said please don't worry he will feel guilty, I asked would he like to go for coffee soon he said yeah sure maybe, so I said how about next Wednesday he says honestly probably not but thanks
• I say if you want me to go away you can just say, he tells me he just needs time to sort himself out but he WILL be back and that he doesn't want me to leave him alone
I don't know what's going on, does he like me? he's quite a big guy I know he is also self conscious of his body

• While I was in an abusive marriage I got feelings for someone
•he admitted he had feelings for me too
• we decided to not act upon our feelings but became close friends ( meeting up for walks playing Xbox etc)
• my marriage breaks down and I kick my husband. out
• a month after this my friend and I go for a walk he keeps hugging me and holding my face kisses my head we nearly kiss
• we start getting flirty over Snapchat
• I bump into him drunk one night and he grabs my arse kisses my neck and we kiss heavily, he freaks out and says this is a bad idea but then oushes me back against a fence and kisses me hard again. he has to go back inside as his mate is inside and I highly suspect he is ordering drugs. when I get home I ask him what would he do to me, he says he would kiss me then I don't hear from him till the next day
• he says he can't remember a thing
• a week goes by so I message him on Snapchat and we start sending sexy messages and he implies he'd like me to come to his house but then freaks out and says he too drunk to fool around.
• I don't hear from him for a whole month despite me telling him in not looking to pin him down I'm happy for just sex or we can forget it and act like it never happened ( he still doesn't reply)
• I find out he's been taking drugs ( coke and ectasy)
• last week I message him asking him to please get back to me I'm worried about him, he says he's gone Into hiding but he will be back
• yesterday I messaged him saying that I was going to drop some sauce by and he said please don't worry he will feel guilty, I asked would he like to go for coffee soon he said yeah sure maybe, so I said how about next Wednesday he says honestly probably not but thanks
• I say if you want me to go away you can just say, he tells me he just needs time to sort himself out but he WILL be back and that he doesn't want me to leave him alone
I don't know what's going on, does he like me? he's quite a big guy I know he is also self conscious of his body

I started liking a guy who was my friend whilst I was in an abusive marriage last year. Me and this guy remained friends and nothing ever happened. I left my husband in March due to abuse and my friend was very supportive but recently things have changed between us, the other day whilst drunk we ended up kissing and touching each other, he kept pulling back and saying it was a bad idea but then going back into touching me and kissing me. He told me to go home and finish myself off and send him pictures. So I did, I asked him what he'd do to me, he then told me he'd kiss me... after this he avoided me for a whole week ( I told him and apparently he can't remember) unroll this Saturday I text him in his birthday again saying I hope he's having a good night. He says he's at home chilling and I should come over, the texts get quite dirty about having sex and I then send him pictures. He screenshots them. Then tells me he's too drunk to do this he's sorry. I tell him he changed his mind quickly and he says he's sobering up ( when he literally just told me he was too drunk) and he's not in the mood, obviously I do like him but I've told him quite a few times I'm happy being a casual fling. It's like he freaks out every time we start getting sexual, this was a month ago he keeps checking my snapchat pictures constantly but not talking to me. the other day he sent me a picture of snapchat directly but then didn't bother replying. he's now replied to me after sending me pictures ' accidentally' on snapchat. he said he has ' gone into hiding' and that he WILL be back he promises.