Search Results: attached to a friend with benefits

Does he feel anything for me?

I met a guy online and we have become friends with benefits and have been talking for about 6 weeks now every day and have sex once a week and have been doing that for the last 3 weeks. We hang out and act like good...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Please help me talk to my friends with benefits. I don't know how to phrase my questions without freaking him out. Why does it feel like we're dating?

I'm open to dating my friends with benefits but he told me (months ago) that he isn't. How do I tell him to be more careful about certain coupley things? How do I ask him if he's changed his mind since a couple months...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Should I friend my hookup?

He's my friend's roommate and i've pregamed with him a few times. Last week we pregamed and went to the bar and actually flirted a little we danced and then I went back to his place. We hooked up (sex) and then went to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why does my friends with benefits act like this?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Okay. So this is my friend of four years. There's always been some sexual tension between us. Three years ago he got a girlfriend and a year ago I got a boyfriend, so between that

Okay. So this is my friend of four years. There's always been some sexual tension between us. Three years ago he got a girlfriend and a year ago I got a boyfriend, so between that period we never crossed the line, but we still flirted intensely. Before those periods though, he use to touch me. During and before, he complimented me all the time. A year ago, we got matched up in the same classes after a year of being apart. He had his girl, I had my guy. I never really crossed the line because I felt that was unfair to my boyfriend, but my friends with benefits told me once that he saw us being in a relationship. We smoked together sometimes, once he told me he was hoping we'd just be shit faced and have an affair with eachother. He brought up motions of us being together. And shit.

I feel like he did that because he had his girl, so he felt safe saying that stuff, you know? But that's just my theory.

So my boyfriend and I split in January. He and his girlfriend in February . Soon after we kissed, and gradually moved up to sleeping with eachother.

Now. He NEVER brings up the thought of us together. He seems so terrified just at the thought of us being together. I can jokingly call him "Babe" and just in an instant he'd be like, "Don't call me that". Like relax man, I was just joking. LOL. But he calls other girls pet names jokingly, and has noooo problem with that.

I mean like. To be honest, the feelings have always been there. But I'm leaving for a four-year university in September. I'm sure it wouldn't work anyway. And he's one of my closest friends, so why do it if I'm gonna' probably end up losing him? I'm not attached to him. Usually when I have feelings it's like an obsession, but it's not like that with him. I just feel comfortable with him and the idea of not dating him doesn't phase me.

I have my theories, share yours. I like to hear other opinions.

I'm going to go see him tomorrow. Now that we graduated and no one's in our busniess, he'll probably be up front with me.

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Guy's Behavior

Nice & In The Friendzone – Debunking The Biggest Dating Hump In History

I know that this article is going to receive a ridiculous amount of hate, but I am a firm believer in that if we don’t put a voice to the issues of society, things will never change. With that said, this isn’t me telling...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Dating

Can someone please give me some advice?

okay so basically my parents aren't very affectionate and have very little to do with me. because of this I get attached to anyone who will so me a little bit of affection. my last serious boyfriend committed suicide and...

_annamitch

Xper 5 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

Friend with benefits is too attached to me?

Ever since I was about 15 I really liked a guy called Renee, but he lived in a different country and it was hard to keep in touch. So we never became boyfriend and girlfriend. Which annoyed me but we always stayed friends...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

No strings attached.. will I be doomed in the end?

So- say you had a friends with benefits type of thing, you guys talk alot- everyday, the only reason why you guys aren't dating is because of baggage and drama. Yesterday we were laying in bed, and I was talking about how...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is there anything wrong with not having an SO?

It seems everybody is supposed to have an SO like it's a law or something. Is there anything wrong with not being attached to anybody and just having friends with benefits?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Friends with benefits, advantages & disadvantages? And what exactly is it?

So a couple months ago, i started liking this guy,& he knows,& he told me he wanted to be friends with benefits , bcus he doesn't really "like' me that way, supposable,& he's 2 years older than me, most of my friends...

Thebabe15

Xper 4 Age: 25

Relationships

WTF is going on in his mind?

i have an friends with benefits since 10 months now. we liked each other and toold that to each other. like 3 months back. he invite me to stay over with him for 2 months of my internship which i had to spend in his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

How should I treat my fwb?

I always had a bit of a crush on him and we've been classmates sorta friends too because we have many friends in common for a really long time and like three weeks ago he asked me to be friends with benefits. I was a bit...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

Suggest me some romatic comedy movies?

Please suggest me some movies which have romance+comedy and some sex scenes like Friends With Benefits, No Strings Attached... Not old movies. I want it all between 2005-2015. Thanks.:)

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Friends with Benefits

Many people choose to engage with a friends with benefits circumstance. While this may work for some it doesn't work for all. First off, you have to ask yourself: Why do I want this? If it's just for sex, then ok. If...

Jamie5225

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Health & Fitness

Help with getting SSI disability benefits, I have a few question?

I'm 32, and I have been struggling with employment my entire adult life. I haven't had regular medical insurance since I was 22, so not only cannot I not afford the required testing to prove some of the conditions that I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

My old friend with benefits says he wants to hang out, but we're both in relationships. What is he doing?

I haven't talked to him in 6 months, and out of the blue he texts that he misses me and wants to hang out. In better judgement, I dont respond at first. After a few minutes he follows up saying he knows I have a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

After 2 years of mixed signals, do I still keep trying or do I just move on? how can I make him realize I genuinely love him?

I've been in love with a guy for over 2 years now. At first we started off as friends then we both got feelings for each other. He wasn't ready to invest himself in a relationship because he didn't have the time so i...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, be completely honest, can you have a friends with benefits and not get attached at all?

Are there any girls who will NOT catch feelings for a FWB?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are there any girls who will NOT catch feelings for a FWB?

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Girl's Behavior

Why don't people believe that some women can have sex without getting attached?

Okay I know I'm a bad person. I cheated on my girlfriend with this girl (she's extremely hot) but then after a while I felt guilty. She didn't know I have a girlfriend untill I told her. We had an adult discussion about...

Anonymous

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