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Weve been together for 6 months now things were at first then i messed up.. i admit it he forgave me we were all lovey dovey again and then my phone was acting up.. it wouldn't charge fast enough.. it stayed at 0% for like 20minutes so i couldnt call my boo to let him kno i was home.. wen i call him it would hang up i barely spoke to him on one of those calls and i told him what was going on with my phone saying i was home n he said i wasn't home dat he can't trust me n blah blah he's now blocked me on his phone.. i dont want to think he's breaking up with me cuz of the holidays but this is just plain dumb to fight over.. i dont expect anything from him cuz i kno he has his kids n his fam to give presents to.. our friends think that might b it.. the reason for his lame excuses to break up

Me and my boyfriend of 7 years have been going at it a lot lately, mostly about him talking to other females. He is very flirtatious and will give or take a phone number from anyone. He also lies a lot. So i kicked him out everyday for a month I finally drew the line and told him by Friday he had to leave. He left but didn't take anything. He came over almost every day to see our kids and take a bath then I started letting him sleep over basically he never left! My hopes of breaking up and him leaving were for him to appreciate me and realize how important our family is to him. I started to see improvement he started spending more time with me and our kids and he would call me and answered the phone when I would call he'd even text me back. He would tell me daily how much he loved me and wanted to make things work and that he wanted to come home permanently I told him he had to stay consistent and keep showing me he wanted the relationship he did here and there but he never really gave it his all this has been going on for 3 weeks so a few days ago I find a few hair strands in his beard I question him and he tells me if he were doing anything with anyone besides me he would tell me so me being skeptical I check his online phone records and confront him I even had a conversation with the female in front of him basically he and she have been having a fling for a month and they have had unprotected sex at least once I have also have had unprotected sex with him 4 days before I found out and he has not been in contact with her and she has contacted me to apologize because he told her he had no contact with me at all he swears he will be a better man but he has promised in the past to change his cheating lying ways he's even volunteered to go to counseling and church so he can be a better spouse and father I don't know what to think I love him so much but having unprotected sex is so low down and dirty especially when you don't know the person from a hole in the wall

So, about a week ago, I found out that the younger guy I WAS dating, was actually younger then he told me.

He told me he was 16, but he's actually 15.
I'm 19, so that makes him 4 years younger than me.

Unfortunately, I had to find this out not from him, but his stepmother. Over the phone.
While talking about the legal trouble he's been in.

A few hours later, I noticed he was on Facebook, so I messaged him hello.

It wasn't him, it was his dad. And his dad was reading all the messages between us.
His dad then proceeded to scold me over sexting his son. ( don't judge me, I thought he was 16, that's the age of consent in this state)
He then proceeded to tell me to stay clear of his son and to stop trying to talk to him,, or he'd get me in trouble. s

So I did. I haven't spoke to, or heard from the younger guy in about a week. I haven't been able to "officially" end it with him, due to the fact that I'm respecting his dad's wishes, amd staying clear of him.

I completely wrote him out of my life, , considered us broken up and over, and moved on with an old , dear friend of mine.
I have no need for a relationship with someone that much younger than me, that can get me arrested,

Did I do the right thing in writing the younger guy out of my life, and basically breaking up with him, by not talking with him?