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So yesterday my boyfriend and I was having a conversation about his diet and how he's training at the gym more often. He has been training for 5 years and he is physically fit. He likes to be healthy. He has been training hardcore and his diet contain not much sugar. Etc etc.
This is was our conversation:
Him - Babe I think you need more motivation to go back to gym again. Need to change
Me - what do you mean? Change what?
Him - not your personality but physique wise. You can be so much fitter
Me - so you're saying you dont like my body?
Him - omg no im not saying that. you're alright now. I dont mind your body. We walk around in public and I hold your hand. If i didn't like your body and think your fat, I wouldn't date you and definitely wouldn't hold your hand in public. If you're getting fat, I would definitely tell you and you know im an honest person. That means you're not taking care of yourself. I dont want my girlfriend or wife to be fat. That would look weird if we walk together. Im not gonna lie, it would embarrass me if you become fat. So no, it doesn't mean i dont like your body. But its just that your diet is not consistent and I want you to be more healthier. I can't control what you eat but im just telling you what I think. Your body is alright now but its not gonna stay like that forever if you dont exercise. As you get older, your metabolism changes. I dont want you thinking "omg im getting fat, i need to go gym now" when you're 30+
Wtf? So does this mean he's saying im fat?
he's just covering it up?
His past gfs wasn't fat.
His first girlfriend was skinny and his second girlfriend was average
Im not gonna lie, I am abit overweight but not fat fat