Search Results: don''t want to lead her on

It all starts out with most women preferring players, fuckbois and assholes over the good guys because, well, I dont know why.

But the good men are the ones who are trampled in the process. Because they are turned down because who wants nice guys right?

It would have been a more equal I playground if the good girls wouldn't friend zone the ones that love and respect them for those who dont respect them and see them just as easy sex.

This leads to the good guys suffer from low self esteem and eventually not wanting to take the initiative at all, and you can't blame them for it.
You can hear quotes like,

"I know he is a player, but I want him , i dont know what it is"

These are the same girls that get their heart broken or used for sex and then dumped, and who are the ones that they got to for a shoulder to cry on?
You are right,
THE GOOD GUYS


Then it is followed by statements like,
" I am never going to find a good guy who loves me and doesn't play with my emotions "
The good guy builds up the courage to show his feelings towards her when she recovers from her 'bad boy dumped me' phase and what happens?
Wham!!
" how dare you? Get away from me, I thought you cared about me"



Another blow to the poor guy.
And thus pseudo hurt female goes back to dating fuckbois and after having completely shattered , who does she expect to step in and treat her right?
You guessed it right, the good guy. Who she hurt time and time again, but he stood by her even though it hurt him to bits.


And if he refuses to take her as a partner, then ohhh my lord FEMINISM. The rambling about slut shaming starts and blaming all men for judging women for the past relationships and how all men just want sex.
The worst part
NOTE:
I am not saying that all women are like this, some learn their lesson before its too late, some know what they want and they stay away from fuckbois because they learn from the mistakes of others.

I'd like to hear your views and opinions about it.

So there was this guy I used to talk to a year ago and we always had a thing. We almost did it on the first date and ever since then, I was too scared to hookup with him. I always lead him on and we end up not doing anything. A few months ago, I told him I dont think we can do anything casual (it was a possibility) and call things off. He was willing to give us a try but took it back I guess. Now I think Im ready to hookup him at least once bc I've been wanting to do it with him for a long time now. Just want to get it over with. We recently matched on tinder but he didn't message me so I don't know if its too late anymore.

So first off, me and my boyfriend been together for over a year
Few weeks back we have been going through some ups and downs.. arguments and all.. which led to a break up last week
But we got back together 2 days later
Ever since we got back together, its been quite good now.. we dont argue anymore and he's still affectionate towards me, still tries to spend time with me often and still calls me everyday to talk and check up on me as usual
So anyway, i went on his facebook profile today (coz I was bored)
And i saw that he still has a picture of us BUT he put it on private (only i can see it, not his friends)
Before all his friends can see it but i realized he changed it to private
And also statuses that he tags me on (he put them on private too)
So I got furious and paranoid and thinking he's cheating on me and that he doesn't want anyone to know that we are back together
I called him and this was our conversation:
Me - do you have someone else?
Him - wtf? No. Why would u say that?
Me - why is our picture on your facebook private then?
Him - what? No its not
Me - yes it is. Go check
Him - ok let me check... oh right custom. Maybe coz we broke up back then but okay, I will put it on public now. You happy now?
Me - are u sure you dont have any other girl?
Him - what? Man no i dont. If i did, i wouldn't spend time talking to you, seeing you. I would be with her. I have nothing to hide.
Me - ok
Him - anything else? Coz i dont want you talking shit about this again when we see each other on the weekend. I have nothing to hide. You can see my phone, i dont care. We can swap phones, whatever. I dont have anyone else ok. I dont even have time for 2 girls anyway so wth. Just dont be so insecure.
Me - ok whatever
Him - is that all? Can i go back to work now?
Me - yeah okay
Him - can't believe you called just for that *laughs* you're funny
Me - I got cheated on before by ex.. so ofcourse im paranoid!
Him -yeh i know.. anyway gotta go to work.. bye babe, love you
Am i overreacting?

So we dated for 4 months. Put it this way, i lead him on to think i wanted something but freaked out and told him i didn't. He got upset then blocked my number but kept me on snapchat. Its been 3 or so months now i do miss him, and he respected me, i guess i was just scared of commitment. I then checked my snapchat and his not on there anymore? I bumped into him recently and asked him about it and he said he would tell me later that night.
I then got an email saying
'i still care about and and i always will'
'Glad to hear im doing ok'
'I took you off for both of us, i dont want to make you jealous and need to move forward'
'Lifes too short to play highschool crappy games with people'
'You deserve to be happy and that i have a great heart'
Then said
'Best wishes cya around'

Has he totally moved on from me?