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He hasn't seen our child or me in months it's a long story I don't want to explain so judge idgaf. Anyway I called him for our child documents and he hung up on me and asked what I wanted. I called him back and told him I'm not about drama, we moved on and let's be mature about it. I told him I don't bother him and let him live his life and I want the documents, I said it nicely. So then he says something a long the lines that I'm only calling or really calling about our child documents and seemed upset. I don't get it. This is a man who abused me among other shit why is he giving me a hard time?

As in :

- Randomly saying she (ex) was really hot

-She (Ex) used to post half naked pics online all the time.

-Telling your partner what celebrity the ex looked like.

... Now I know people talk about stuff randomly. I do find it odd for anyone to be saying these things kinds of for no reason- Especially when Not being asked.

However somewhat ironic , I think people can Accidentally be tactless when they do not mean harm - precisely bc they weren’t trying to be harmful.. So it may genuinely not occur to them that its a not great thing to do.

And yes, I do not think she thinks it is something she needs to be upset over.. . The concern was the possible motivation of him doing it. Not so much the fact of him doing it.