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Let's be honest, the average person does not have the best body according to beauty standards. They may not have a flat stomach. They may not be as tall as most peope find "attractive". Infact, in many ways the average person is the complete opposite of what we see in the media. However, we all are guilty of expecting someone who fits the "standard". And when someone who likes us for who we are, we expect them to be fitting our high standards. (I'm not telling people to just settle but still).
The truth hurts, my goal is to make people realise this.
Would you date someone who has an average body. (please don't associate this with "fat". There is more to a body than the weight. It could be a skin disease, or different type of hair)

I liked this guy but it turns out he was shallow, fake and annoying. He had been gossiping about me with his ex, when I found out I first confronted him until she started butting in. Then I told her to fuck off. I barely knew this girl but she tried to come at me for being black. She started tanning, trying to stick out her butt, etc. I paid her no kind, so she started trying to gossip about me so I blocked her ass and him.
I never really met his friends but they assumed I was jealous, fat and ugly because I dont have any photos of me online. I got really sick of her coming at me sideways. She was all like im a model, blonde and blue eyes. I was like so? Im curvy, I have big beautiful curly hair and im nice. She took me saying im curvy as being fat.
Im actually naturally small and petite, but also fit. I work out and eat healthy. She looks like the typical starving, blonde makeup caked model. I dont need to be jealous of a girl built like boy. I have a nice flat stomach, abs, an ass and boobs.
I found out him and his friends do drugs and it became too toxic for me. I live around lots of white people. Lots of white blonde women are the standard of beauty. I didn't care until she tried bullying me. The same girl who said I was hating on her for being white tans her skin until it's orange and wears box braids in her hair. I dont wear weave or do anything to my skin. I dont do anything period that resembles a white girl and I dont look like one. She pissed me off bad.