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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. We started talking 5 months before that. [(He broke up with me after a month because I wouldn't sleep with him. But we got back together.)((I waited for marriage with my exhusband and I view sex differently than others do. He was very abusive that is why we are no longer together.))] Anyway, he broke up with me again in November saying that he couldn't deal with me having a child.

He slept with a couple people (including a pretty ex) texting more. We got back together after about three weeks of us being broken up even though we were around each other all the time.
I got let go and I saw that he texted a girl from work the day after I got fired. I confronted him about it. He said he didn't know why he texted her that it seemed like something to do because he had to ask about his schedule. But that it wouldn't have went anywhere. I asked if he wanted an open relationship but he said no because he wouldn't want me doing the same. I've seen him texting and talking to two other ones.
I asked him what he was doing. If he really wanted a relationship with someone else or what. He said it was just talking and running into each other at work. Said I was who he loved and what he wanted. That it was just conversation that he did it for excitement.
I asked him if I wanted him to join a dating app if he would for me. He asked why? I told him if it was just conversation and flirting. He could do that. He said he deleted stuff like that a long time ago and that he didn't need them. So I asked if "the endgame really was to sleep with her." (Because that to me sounds like he actually likes this person and really wants to persue her.) He told me the endgame was to be 89 sleeping with me.
But I asked him once more before work if he actually wanted to have sex with her. If it went that far if he would not. He said "What do you want me to say?" Then he replied "Yes. I would fuck her. And then I'd leave her alone. And she'd leave me alone."

My dad is dating his girlfriend for 2 and a half years, and she made me feel like I finally had a mom. For those who don't know, my mom remarried after coming out of the asylum because she became suicidal, why? My dad cheated and abused her. I was so happy that my dad was becoming finally loyal that I got this amazing bond with my almost stepmom, but for some strange reason he was getting mad all the time when he noticed I was getting attached to her as if she was my mother, and for a woman who lost her daughter from cancer, she finally got back that bond. Today she was on a business trip with her younger son, who's just started University, and my father was missing all day (as usually he was at work) but when he got back, he instantly started getting ready and told me that he'll be back soon. He arrived home at midnight while I was finishing a conversation on the phone, and I rushed to the kitchen because I haven't eaten anything yet, but he wouldn't let me pass because he said "I have a guest... so you better go back to your room.". I was a bit suspicious but I went back to my room with an empty stomach to read a book, twenty minutes later I could hear them having sex. And I could hear her voice, she was much younger than him or my stepmom, she must have been in her late twenties... I'm so grossed out I threw up. My dad hated my ex for cheating on me but what disgusted me more is that he is just like my ex... god I wanna vomit again. How do I deal with that crap?