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OK so I kinda have a huge crush on this guy in one of my classes. He has a really nice jawline, the coolest green eyes, a cute smile, and, best of all, he is the most genuine guy I've ever met.
Ok so here are some things that have happened with us:
+I don't really talk to him because he intimidates me but one time I wished him luck before a competition and he gave me this surprised look, smiled really genuinely, said thanks, and came over to where I was talking to my friend going to the same competition. We didn't talk more after that because people not going had to leave (I wasn't in it)
+When we have free time in class I'll be sitting somewhere with my friend and he'll always casually end up sitting close behind us with his friend
+I see him in the same hall almost everyday and sometimes I notice him looking my way. One of the first times I saw him he gave me this deer in the headlights look, not sure what that means
+He is friends with a lot of super nice and pretty girls though and I wouldn't be surprised if he likes one of them, he talks to them a lot and gave one a hug on her bday. My friend said they talk to him more than the other way but I think it's a mutual thing.
+He doesn't follow everyone back on Insta but when I requested he accepted and followed back almost immediately. My friend recently requested and he hasn't responded.
+I got put in a group with his friend but his friend barely talks to me/makes eye contact with me, he asked help from my crush the other day and my crush was talking to him (I couldn't hear what they were saying) and he looked right at me.
+I make contact with him at random times. (I don't catch him looking at me much though) Someone made a joke and I was laughing and then we made eye contact
+He holds doors for me and stuff but he's just that kind of a person
Thanks lovies :)

My boyfriend just bought a house and a shop so he has been occupied with that I get it. I also get his stress level from work and family issues is high.

But, what I don’t get is why it’s been taken out on me. He isn’t affectionate for about two months now. By affectionate, I mean holding hands, from behind hugs, hand kisses, or just making out in general. It’s been just a kiss for a while now

Another thing is he told me about one of his female friends. I didn’t care much until I noticed how often he’s glued to his phone texting her. They text constantly everyday (at least when we’re together they’re texting) they dm each other memes and also on Facebook

They’re friends I get it, but Jesus the amount of texts exchanged between each other is stupid. I’ve also noticed he turns his phone away from my direction sometimes

Not sure when that started but because I’m paying attention to his actions, I’ve noticed that

And we haven’t been going out lately. It’s always he’s doing errands for the new house or he’s doing this and that

But although he’s acting strange, he did his entire house based on my taste. He always asked me for my opinion and did that, from Wall colors to kitchen cabinet handles. He’s always saying it’s our future house when we get married and all that. by the way we are dating in hopes of a future together. I’ve met his family and friends etc. all that fun stuff.

there's so much more but I’ll just end it here. Also, i know I should talk to him and communicate, but i have my reasons for not doing so just yet. So for now I just need opinions.