Search Results: letting him down easy

Letting me down easy, or is there still a chance?

So, a couple of years ago, I fell for a guy. We went our separate ways when we went home after camp. That December, he told one of our mutual friends that he though I liked him, and he thought he might like me too. This...

KamiKryptonite

Xper 5 Age: 33

Should I tell her how I feel?

ok, this one is complex, but then again life can be complex also... I am not expecting any magic answers, or a solution, just a little guidance... here's my story. i fell in love with my best friend almost 3 years ago...

WorkInProgress

Xper 5 Age: 47

How do girls let guys down in an easy way (after just getting their number)?

Hey! So I got this girls number on the weekend and I phoned her a few days later. Before I asked if she would like to go out I made some small talk, as not to get right to the point. It seemed to go alright. Although,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Guy backs out at the last second?

there is a guy that I went to college with who sent me mixed signals our entire friendship. he does not make eye contact and ignores me in public, but is totally confident online/texting. junior year, one night he asked...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend recently committed suicide. . .Now I'm thinking the same too??

We have been together since Nov 2009, relationship was really good at the time until April when she decided to have break. Due to her busy job hours with our son and me with studies too. Apparently things got worse as she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

How do I go about telling her I like her (without it being awkward or me seeming creepy)? Help!

I'll admit it, I'm shy, plain and simple. I go to college and there is this girl I like a lot, beautiful, intelligent, easy to talk to, sexy... I've had about 4 encounters with her in which we talk (or something), but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend broke off year and a half relationship because he is busy. I am confused!

Just a little over a week ago my boyfriend told me that he is too busy for our relationship right now. When we were together he always told me how much he loved me, and how he wanted to marry me someday, so this took me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys want the woman to call them?

A guy I had hung out with gave me his number and said keep in touch. Is that his way of letting me down easy, or does he actually want me to call him?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is She Letting Me Down Easily?

I have had this female friend for a few years now. I began feeling very attracted to her recently so I told her how I felt about her. She told me she wishes I told her before she got into a relationship with someone,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Help. My heart can't move on?

I asked out my crush of two years a month ago and she turned me down. However she didn't say she's not interested but kept giving excuses like "let me check my schedule". If I send a text she'll respond a couple of times...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She's acting distant but saying she still likes me a lot...

Well I've been dating this girl for a little under a month we've been on a few dates and hung out a couple more times than that. Every time we've gotten together she's told me how much she likes me how much fun she had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Easy ways and little signs how guys let down girls?

I know most guys say what they think and feel, straight up. But nice guys have a hard time letting a girl down they're not interested in. I was curious what are some of the signs and ways you guys do it?

Anonymous

(36-45)

My fiance of 5.5 years just dumped me--but wants to support me still.

My fiancé of 5.5 years recently dumped me. We started out great, happy, lots of intimacy, he was my rock and my partner. Then, after a couple years, sex the died out-completely. He would occasionally make an advance,...

anon83

Xper 4 Age: 43

How do I get him back?

My boyfriend of eight months broke up with me last Saturday. He said he didn't want a relationship because he couldn't handle the stress anymore. This weekend we hung out with his family and went to dinner and to a movie....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Rejected by a girl I really like but it did not hurt, wtf?

I really like her and she told me she said we would still go out as friends for now, but also stuck in that brotherly love crap. She seemed happy I asked smiling and a little blushing. She told me I shouldn't be so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do I guide him or give up? How long does "space" last?

My boyfriend and I have been dating 1.5 yrs. We see each other 2-3 times a week although we live 30 miles apart. It has been the most harmonious relationship I have ever been in. He makes a huge effort to see me, my...

willingandready

Xper 5 Age: 44

What does it mean when your guy tells you he just needs some space?

I've been dating a guy off and on for 2 years. Over the two years we had a lot of ups and downs. We fight a lot because we both like attention and when we go out we tend to flirt with others not in front of each other...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Me and this girl have been arguing a lot, I want things to get better but how?

Okay, so I like this girl and she likes me and we've met up, kissed etc. Although I feel I have been too open to her and possibly to easy to the point there's probably going to be no attraction for her as she seems to...

fmfan08

Xper 5 Age: 34