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I met a woman a wonderful, wonderful woman. She is beautiful, smart, funny and sarcastic sometimes at the wrong times. but she is who I fell in love with. I really honestly never felt this way about anyone and I was even previously married. I am 34 years old and she is also 34 she has no kids and wants 3 kids before she is 40. I am a single dad I have my kid full time, so she said she would be fine having 2 kids before she is 40 she is great with my kid. I have been dating her 6 months she just told me she loves me last week and she is scared to lose me. I love her so much I actually told her I was in love with her around a month ago. Things have been really great we have had no problems. other than what is in my head. so "MY" issues in the relationship I over think everything. So, we were talking about things and then her previous marriage (she mentions her EX husband often) she told me she thought he was the love of his life. then at a different date she had told me she doesn't believe in true love or soul mates. so am I missing something there? she does say she still has walls up with me. yet we are talking about kids and possibly moving in together next year. I feel a little rushed with this 4 1/2 yr timeline. 2 kids, house and marriage. she always says I'm so good to her and how nice I am. she seems wonderful but if she can't feel I am "the one" should I continue with the relationship I don't want to waste her time or her miss her chance on kids or her feel 'stuck' with me if she can't fully let her guard down with me and feel that I could be the love of her life... my own wall is building up I will not go through another divorce Should I just let things go including the little things? at this point I feel I maybe just wasting her time somehow if we aren't 100% with each other.