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So anyways. I met this guy at school and we attend the same club, other than that we see each other in the hallway. So one day, I told my friend I though he was cute because I had been thinking about him like that a few days before. Later that day, she told him I liked him - but I wasn't sure, I just had to say it to someone, so I said it, I didn't think she would tell him that. He told her he liked me.

After that, he asked me out a few times, and I called him out once, but that was the first time we went out - I wanted to see what he's like. Turns out he's cool and everything. (It all started less than two months ago, but we knew each other maybe two months longer than that.)

So a few days ago, my friend (the one that told him about my "crush" on him) told me he was planning to ask me to be his girlfriend on out date. (But let me just make it clear - we have only been talking on our dates, nothing touchy ever happened in between us)

And he did. I was thinking whether to go or not, but he told me he payed tickets for a small concert and I felt bad if I were to cancel it just like that. So I went with him. And he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said "Yeah", well.. actually I just nodded and whispered a quiet "yes", but I also asked him to sit down with me and I told him I am not ready for a relationship because I am really not. I don't even think I like him like that anymore. I mean, I did say "a crush".

I told him 'no for now, give me some time' because he just couldn't embrace the fact that I said I'm not ready for a relationship. I am kind of tomboy, more than kind of, actually, and I keep on thinking would I want to be with him. I thought about what people do in relationships with what I'm not really familiar and I thought about holding hands, kissing or hugging. But I don't want to do that with him. I mean, I just don't think I like him that way. But I don't know if I'm just too scared so my feelings went like this...