Search Results: why did he disappear

There’s a girl who follows my boyfriend. They like each other’s photos. I asked him who she was and if they have sex chats... because that’s how we met. I would never ask him to remove anyone or stop talking to someone, I was just wondering and I said it’s not a big deal. I just wanted to know if he liked her more than he liked me. He said no and then when I looked again she had disappeared from his followers and following lists. Why would he remove her?

We have a short but intense history. I stopped talking to him for a month because he did a bonehead thing to make me jealous.

Probably because I got a little distant due to us not seeing eye to eye on the nature of our relationship. Anyway, I expressed this and told him why I disappeared and was totally transparent about why I acted the way I did. So he said he was sad that I cut him off, misses me, loves me and wants to be with me.

We haven't had sex and I have made it clear it isn't happening if I'm not married. I am really distrustful of men and their motives due to a lot of past trauma. I know people can't mind read but does he sound like he's just saying anything he can to win and get me in bed or is he being truly vulnerable with me?