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I'm on a break with my boyfriend because things have fizzled out and I've constantly been thinking about what else is out there, and I think he could tell something was up so he agreed to the break.

It's only been 2 days and I'm overthinking more than I was before! Because now I have a week to decide if I want to be with this person. So basically my mind has been going crazy

One part of me misses my boyfriend and misses the comfort and companionship of talking to him everyday and having someone to help you with your problems and make you feel better. And to have someone that you know really cares about you. And to have someone to hang out with on the weekends and during the week when friends might not be around.

The other part of me realizes that there is a reason we are on a break. We weren't being intimate anymore and I felt like we were becoming friends more than boyfriend and girlfriend. And I also think if we end it now we would still end on good terms and maybe we can be friends. And if we end the relationship sooner rather than later then there is less pain in the long run...

side note: In his last relationship they didn't sleep together or really be intimate for 6 months and they tried to do stuff on Valentine's day and she told him she didn't love him anymore...

I don't want that to happen to us. And I would never want to hurt him like that.

I thought I was over this guy, I really should be it's been 3 years since we've dated. But, I recently had a dream with him and I fooling around. The strange things was I was/am not really attracted to him. I became attracted to him, because of the way he treated me. I was starting to fall for him, which is why I asked him to be my boyfriend. He said no because he didn't seeing too far with us and honestly I didn't really eithier.

We only dated a few months, but it was the longest things I've ever had. I was upset when we ended things, he wasn't officially my boyfriend, but we were "exclusive." I didn't really know this at the time, but there was one summer that I was getting over him and did some stupid stuff. I think I was kinda hoping he'd stop me. I did also thinnk he was gonna realized he made a mistake and ask me to get back together with him. I thought this, because we were hanging out just about every single day and if I didn't see him he'd text or call me. (Part of the reason we hungout everyday was because we were on our college campus and there weren't many people around, but also we were just close) One night I was sitting on the couch and he was laying down and he put his head on my lap and said, " I miss this" and I said, "I miss this too." Probably a month later there were a few days that I hadn't heard from him. Then I foundout on Facebook that he got a girl friend. I was just about heart broken and cried like crazy.

I didn't hear from him for a while which makes sense, but sucked. Then during the school year we started hanging out some more. But we'd pretty much only hangout during the week or weekends his girlfriend didn't come up. We were still pretty close though, my friend would tease that I was pretty much his 2nd girlfriend. I thought that his relationship might not last too long if they didn't have sex. He takes sex pretty seriously so I knew that if that happened they would date for a while. One night we were drinking and he was kinda bragging to his guy friends about having sex with his girlfriend. I was kinda upset and drank a lot. I also didn't realize how many shots were in my glass. Anyway, I ended up making out with his roommate that night.I pretty much thought I was over him after that point.

A couple years later I did something kinda mean, but I think it was to push him away. I tried to be friends with his girlfriend but she was so shy and kinda snobby so I didn't end up becoming friends with her. Then I thought she said some rude comments (which my friend ended up telling me that it wasn't true) I told him that I didn't like her and we talked about it and was still trying to act civil towards her.