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If you need a back story I spent this previous summer with my boyfriend in his home state. His then 15 year old sister treated me like shit and no one knew why. While we were there a few incidents occurred that made me question how she felt towards her brother but out of respect I never said anything. We have been back at college for a few months now and the questionable acts have continued. She has posted several MCM and even MCE of her brother where he shirtless and even some of just his abs. Then in the caption she put things like "I'm lucky i found him" "We have a ride or die relationship" and other things I would never say about my brother. Also in these captions of the posts she never once says "this is my bro or my great big brother I look up to" Even though these posts were very suspicious me and my boyfriend talked about it he agreed but said how does he approach his mom or sister with something like that. I was clueless. So we just stayed quiet and the posts continued. Then comments started coming people would comment on the posts asking "Oh you go with him" "your man is fine AF" and also " I see who the real bae is" never once did she correct them. Then we clicked on one of the profiles that had commented and their page wasn't on private. We looked at the pics and on one of them his sister was having a convo with this girl and the girl said "your pics are dope especially the ones of your man" his sister responded by saying " lol yea thats my baby he erky and crazy but we been rocking it for 3 years now" I couldn't believe my eyes. My boyfriend checked and he was the only guy she had on her ig. At this point he knew he had to tell his mom. My sister also follows his sister and saw the comments and wrote on the pic and said " you shouldn't be telling people your brother is your boyfriend you're welcome" His mom completely ignores everything the daughter did and said and only had a problem with my sister saying something to her daughter.

I've been in a relathinship for almost two years with a guy I always thought as the love of my life.
Back when we met, I was 16, he was very cold and distant, he was very bussy with his friends and school, playing baseball, and other activities, but I loved him so much that I stayed with him for more than a year, before leaving him when I realised we weren't going anywhere. When I told him, for my surprise, he cried lika a baby and begged me to stay togheter but I had already made my choice and left him.
After that we texted from time to time but nothing happened until a year and a half later. This time it was magical, he was always there when I asked, he was warm and tender, he epressed his feelings for me everytime he got the chance.
Ufortunately now I feel like he's becoming cold again. He wouldn't come to my family events, such as my sister's prom, lunch with my dad, and so on. I know these are not the most pleasent activities, but I feel really awful having to go alone, and telling my family that he's not coming AGAIN. He's studying a lot and can't be there everytime I ask, but I feel like he's not even trying. He won't even walk me to the bus stop...
And Honestly I'm not better than him, although I'm always there for him, no matter how dull the place we're goning to. But I never feel like going out with him anymore. I can't think of things to talk about, I feel tired when I'm around him and don't want to do anything. But I still feel like a love him and could never hurt him since I care very deeply for him.
To make it worse, a friend of my that I adore confessed a couple of months ago that he's in love with me and kissed me, I've have never felt such an intense feeling while kissing someone as I did that time, although nothing else happened. I like him too, but I could not say it. He knows everything that happened between my and my boyfriend and says I deserve to be treated better and that he wants to make my happy, and I think I want that too..

So my sister and her boyfriend have been ganging up on me lately. We all live together and I'm like the outsider in the house because they're dating and they fight so she takes her anger out on me. I'm really nice to her... I cook her lunch sometimes and drive her to and from school and I even waited for her after her exam even though I had to get to class and I asked for nothing in return. So yesterday Im kinda emotional because my time of the month so I am just taken by how her boyfriend treats me like he seriously is not nice to me whatsoever and she was like he is just an asshole and she started defending him and started bashing on me saying I'm a mean person and i push people away yet I'm nice to everyone and do everything for her. I moved to a different town for her so she can get her education. She even told me to move back home. So I leave class to go home because I was crying and I didn't wanna cry in class and I told her boyfriend to pick her up nicely when class is done and where to go and when she got home she wouldn't talk to me and she threw my brush away I don't know why and today she wouldn't talk to me even though I tried joking with her. I don't like this at all... It's a waste of my energy.