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There is just SO MUCH cheating today. And in the end, what does trust even do? Lets you get fooled easier and more often, as well as allows your boyfriend/girlfriend or wife/husband to fall into temptation of another person. Believe it or not, but everyone can be seduced and catch feelings for someone else. All it takes is time and the right words. So really, trust is a bad thing in the way that you all believe in it. I'm not saying you should accuse or control your significant other, but there does have to be some restrictions for the both of you and explaining yourself when you do anything. Most of the cheating and "Trust" comes from pride. But in order to get a good, long and actual loving relationship, pride MUST be taken out. And the pride I'm talking about is, "You can't tell me what to do, I'm my own person, you don't own me, ect" That bull crap.

They suspect you cheat because you are always going out.
Maybe have an attractive friend you don't know try to attract you in real life or on the internet. Or they follow you or have you followed to see if you would cheat.
When they see that you wouldn't cheat they admit they didn't trust you and apologize for questioning your faithfulness because they feel bad.
Would you be mad.

I've read of guys coming home from work early, business trips or deployment and catching their significant others cheating. Even knew a guy who put a tracker on his wives car came home a few days early from a business trip and was messaging her about what she was doing at home. Granted she was away with her co-worker while he staid at home packing all his shit and left her. She was replying (oh just watching tv, or playing on my laptop in bed).

i know we should have complete trust on those we love but it can easily be broken when they think they won't be caught. Is it okay to come home early to surprise your significant other? It can either be a very happy surprise or a shitty one.

How much money would it take for you to betray your signification other? Cold CA$H.
Most everything has a price, even if perhaps unrealistic. Would you cheat for five thousand dollars, twenty-five thousand dollars, a quarter million dollars? Name your price. Or what price is too low?

I mean they came to you and said "I'm sorry but I don't feel the same about you anymore, I found someone else, I hope you understand." Your not mad but sad so you tell them "I understand, I hope for nothing but good things in your future, and I hope you are happy with who you found."
Then about a month later they come to you and say "I'm so sorry I left you, I realized I don't love that person and that I can't live without you, Please forgive me"
They did not cheat on you or do anything with the person until they broke up with you.
What would you do? What do you say?