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Search Results: getting called a player
The great guy syndrome?
I was reading questions about women's behavior and I came across one where a guy wanted to know why girls are afraid to date the so called great guy. That one with great personality, great looks, down to earth, good...
133mike
Xper 3 Age: 44 Double Standards
1) A woman will drop hints shy of telling a man she likes him yet a man can show his affection and be expected to say "I love you". 2) If you buy your woman a gift, you're after something or you screwed up. If you...
KERMlT
Xper 4 Age: 49 Relationship Or A Fling, Get Over Him
While I was online earlier today, a friend has sent me an instant message that started out with “ So I have texted someone I shouldn’t have yesterday ”. The conversation quickly yielded a story that could be a book...
monkey
Explorer Age: 48 He lovED me. But now he acts like he still does while he's around his new girlfriend?
Yes, he is a player. But he doesn't mean too. He keeps getting with these girls who are terrible. He asked me out in 08 in December I said I wasn't ready yet but I love him. then he went with another girl. Here's a list...
Lyssa
Xper 4 Age: 109 How do I know if he's a player, or just in it to get over his ex?
Alright, so I was talking to this guy threw MySpace, he randomly added me and lives in my city so we have been talking. He calls me NON STOP and I barely show interest except by rating him an 8 out of 10, so I was...
MissaAnnaLeigh
Xper 5 Age: 32 Are all guys or most guys instinctively born with the social skills, flirting skills, "game", in order to attract girls?
attract girls? in order to get a girlfriend? Because I'm a guy in his early 20's that has never had a girlfriend in his entire life, always been single, it is really frustrating and depressing seeing all those other...
Anonymous
(36-45) Ex girlfriend's parents?
Broke up with my ex GF, apparently, she wanted a ring round her finger, but didn't really tell me, she dropped subtle hints that I didn't get at the time...the way she put it..or what I understood at the time was that she...
Anonymous
(36-45) How long after a date should you give up?
So I had a first date last night with a guy I met on match.com, and we were hitting it off really well. We talked for hours, were laughing and just having a great time. He didn't want the date to end so he asked if I...
lostandconfused
Xper 6 Age: 47 Done with the nice guy thing?
Its totally true that nice guys finish last. I was so many girls "friend" they turned to but I was apparently not even worth considering when they felt the urge for a kiss or sex. I had this ongoing relationship with...
Anonymous
(36-45) How can he still have feelings for me?
I've had 2 COMPLETELY different guys tell me my ex acts like he's still into me. The first guy said it was so obvious because of the way he had kept looking at me at a party we were both at. We had just been friends at...
Anonymous
(36-45) Well apparently, girls like drug heads and I give up, for now, on dating.
I give up seriously... I'm a mature, good-looking (so I'm told by many), sober guy, no drinking or drugs/smoking... In college where just about EVERYONE walks around smoking and whatnot, and girls I liked in high school...
Anonymous
(30-35) Did I freak him out? (Sorry for the length)
There's a guy I met at a party last year, who I danced with once, he got my number, and we really only spoke a couple times before summer break came. We didn't talk all summer. Now this year we're back on campus and he...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is he a player, or does he really care about me?
I used to work with a guy with whom I became friends, talking at work and via the phone sometimes at night. The friendship began after he broke up with his girlfriend and was put on hold when they got back together and...
matteah
Xper 3 Age: 59 Is this guy a complete player?
This is my first question & thanks in advance for any replies. I met this guy on a night out in the pub 5 weeks ago. There was comedy & dancing & he was with a large group of his mates. Myself and 2 girlfriends ended up...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Attraction and Opportunity
It was requested that I write an article about an on-going issue that I responded to that pertains to flirting and engaging a person in conversation that would lead into a relationship. Essentially, the initial...
WaitingAtTheDoor
Yoda Age: 44 "Not emotionally ready for anything serious", yet called me his girlfriend?
Very long story short, I started talking to this dude online about 2 years back. We started really getting to know each other this year, and I was smitten pretty quick, which is incredibly rare for me. He seemed to feel...
LaineCambria
Xper 5 Age: 38 Is he interested or what? confused by his actions...
There is this guy I met about a month and a half to two months ago on the train to the city. He approached me first. The next day he saw me again and introduced himself, we began talking and it has led to us sitting next...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why hasn't my boyfriend called in 2 days?
I just started seeing this guy about 1 month ago, and we usually text each other every day all day and see each other usually just on the weekends and we have sleepovers, he says that he really likes me and right now were...
Deesam
Xper 4 Age: 35 Confused.
So I met a wonderful girl a few months ago and although I’m usually shy I instantly felt a connection and asked her out. We hit it off right away, got intimate by the third date. After spending a lot of time together...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) I'm not sure what to do. What would you do?
A female friend of mine apparently used to be attracted to me a few years ago, but a) I'm bad at getting the hint b) didn't /don't hang out in person that much, most communication was occasionally at shows, maybe a few...
mts312
Xper 6 Age: 44 