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Search Results: have cake and eat it too
What's on your mind right now?
Myself: I have a technical article that I've been writing for a long time. I am very slow and I'm irritated about that. I wish I can finish it soon so as to let it out. My birthday is coming tomorrow too so I'm waiting...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is this guy even remotely interested in me?
We've been seeing each other now for 9 months. He works nights and I know he is busy, but I get the sense he is blowing me off lately in favor of someone else. I told him I thought he didn't want to see me anymore and he...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Boyfriend was going to meet up with another girl? Have your cake and eat it too?
my boyfriend of nearly 4 years planned a trip to panama with his buddies...i found on his email where he was trying to meet up with a girl there...he says he loves me and I know he means it but why do guys try to talk to...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why won't he give up on me?
i decided to leave this guy along because he wasn't ready for a relationship. he wanted to have his cake and eat it too. i dealing with a lot of females and he think that i don't know. i no longer call or pick up my...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) New email from ex girlfriend confusing...how to reply?
If you see my other questions you'll see my situation. After a week of me saying we shouldn't see each other anymore I got an email saying things like... I was with my friends this weekend and remembered how you used to...
Anonymous
(36-45) He broke it off 3 weeks ago and we finally talked about the reason today, should I let it go?
So my boyfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. We were in a long distance relationship when he moved to another country after 9 months of dating. We tried the whole distance thing for 3 months but after that he broke...
sheekbelle
Xper 5 Age: 38 Divorcing guy wants FWB but gives more signs?
"Greg" is divorcing his second wife. He hasn't had a lot of experience dating (went from wife #1 to wife #2, has had a couple one night stands and a puppy love since his separation. He says he wants FWB, then he mentions...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) I'm having a very difficult time deciding no contact with my ex (long)
We've been friends since we were 14. I've been with him for 5.5 years and it was really a good relationship...I'm turning 22 and he's turning 23. So it's been a long while...we've been long distance for 2.5 years and I...
hunnybunny81105
Xper 5 Age: 37 Staying friends with an ex?
He was my husband. He cheated on me, left our home, me and our son, moved in with another girl but wanted to remain "friends". Ok, so most people would say this was an easy let-down..have your cake and eat it too..this...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Torn between two men. (Warning! LONG!)
I have a real dilemma and unfortunately I don't know what to do about it. I need to make a decision soon but I risk hurting one of these great guys in order to choose one over the other. 1. Six months younger than me....
Anonymous
(45 Plus) After breaking up with me, my Boyfriend wants me back...
but I don't know how to feel. We had been dating for over a year but he broke up with me 2 weeks ago cause he needed space. I went through a small depression this semester and it affected him too making him push me...
Anonymous
(36-45) What to do when the "other woman" gets pregnant?
When I first got with this guy, I did NOT know I was "the other woman", just to clarify. It's been a little over a year now, he's been promising to end it with her, but I remain the "other woman". That's my own...
Anonymous
(36-45) My friend is being propositioned by his ex-girlfriend who is married with kids?
My friend was recently told that if he went back home to visit his family for Christmas, that his ex-girlfriend would do him. She's recently married and just had another kid. She regrets dumping my friend and treating...
muffin20
Xper 5 Age: 45 What does he mean?
My boyfriend and I have been through ups and downs for almost a year now. We love each other very much but we have communication problems and end up fighting all the time. He then comes and leaves...all the time. Now he...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Would this make you want to stay away or make it a challenge for you?
So I'm going to make this short because this goes way back, leading up to the incident in question. I have been broken up with my boyfriend for 8 mos now. It's been an emotional roller coaster for me because he basically...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) I have no idea what me and my ex are to each other?
I was going out with my ex boyfriend for only 6 weeks (we were seeing each other much longer) it was my first relationship and pretty much his first healthy one (2 before that ended badly) we were quite compatible, had...
Anonymous
(30-35) What to do when you have a crush.. and a boyfriend?!
I've been with my boyfriend for around 2-3 years and known him for a good while longer. I love him, & we've talked about getting married before. However, he's been weird about it every time I try to talk to him about it...
Anonymous
(36-45) Overreacting? Or trust my gut? Need help with this one guys ;)
Long story short. BF and I going out for 1 year. went out with his co-workers, one of them female, and his physical type (I'm blond, she's brunette like his ex). He introduced us, she was not friendly to me at all....
Brazenbeauty123
Xper 5 Age: 40 Is it a case of ''he wants his cake and eat it too''?
OK guys. here goes: I've been in love with my friend since 5 years and it all began with him flirting with me but was too shy to be direct so I told him first. since then he's maintained a ''im confused or maybe in the...
girlbuddy
Xper 3 Age: 40 My ex fiancee wants to do lunch, she does not realize what she did to me.
Hey guys and gals. We have been broken up for over a month now. I have not been making first contact but she has maintained contact with emails ect. she did the dirty on me and I broke it off with her as she was hurting...
surfer01
Xper 5 Age: 46 