I wouldn't listen to what some of these other people are saying. Being bored, or not fulfilling his fantasies are all just excuses that men AND women use to justify hooking up with someone during a relationship with someone else. If he truly loves you and wants to marry you, he wouldn't be meeting up with some girl in Panama who he met off of Craigslist. I would confront him about it. Don't sound angry, but just straight up tell him, I saw your email and you are meeting a girl, what is up with that?
I know it hurts to think he may be cheating, he may not be trying to, but you just never know. And it's especially crucial if he may become your fiancée someday, to at least know what is going on with him. It's normal for guys to go on trips with their friends. But what is unacceptable is going there to meet another woman. How would he feel if you were talking to a guy, and instead of studying were meeting with this new guy? I'm sure he would be just as hurt as you probably are now. So I think you are justified in asking some questions.
You probably shouldn't be looking through his emails, but now that you know, you two have to be upfront. He will probably be upset that you checked his emails. But I mean how justified is he in meeting this other girl anyway? :S
I wish you the best, hopefully it was just nothing.
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Don't believe the hype. You found out he was trying to meet up with another girl in Panama and you don't think anything shady was going on? This is the first time THAT YOU KNOW ABOUT. He just got caught, doesn't mean he's never cheated on you before. Cheaters talk to other girls because they aren't done playing around and don't want to be monogamous.
if he really loves you he wouldn't want to be looking for other girls to meet up with while on vacation. :( He'd want to be with you.
Because exclusivity is actually unnecessary, but many girls are lost in their fairy tale world and would freak the f-ck out if the guy ever had sex with another girl, despite how if he still remains with the girl no harm is caused and at least he doesn't get bored. Possibly that's why.
And of course, she might just be a friend. Lol.
Sounds like a cake hound to me. Either coat your head with frosting or head down the road.
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try to talk?
sounds like he's looking for more than just talk
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