there needs to be some level of flexibility. for example i hate eating unhealthy food and am very particular about what i eat, but i know that if my friend has made a cake and wants me to try a piece, i will do so.
disciplined people aren't undesirable, but oftentimes too much discipline can be very bad for you, and therefore make you less desirable.
when i was younger i wouldn't like when people would talk about their accomplishments (achieved through discipline), it would bring out my insecurity and ego. so there's also that side to it. people may be intimidated by discipline.
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It depends what you mean by disciplined. I imagine a disciplined person to be very rigid, for example they go to the gym 4 times a week and stick to that.
In a dating context being disciplined could be undersirable at times, since a lot of people prefer to go with the flow and have a flexible partner.
Only to the masses. It’s harder to manipulate and toy with someone who is disciplined. “The game” doesn’t play on that field. You may have inadvertently, or not, let the ladies onto an underserved demographic though. Real women who want a real man can find them in places where discipline is a fundamental priority. Unfortunately for men, the places where women go for such experiences are fairly unfriendly to men, at least societally.
If ''discipline'' means to mindlessly follow the rules of one's leader (as indicated in that question picture) ... then I loathe them for being sheep.
But a self specified discipline in a variety of life aspects would be very welcome to me.
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Only if they are up tight, rigid, obsessive-compulsive, anal retentive, boring, inhibited, unexciting, humorless, no fun.
A certain level of discipline is a good thing. But so is a certain level of spontaneity and silliness.Well speaking from personal experience ever since I have become more disciplined and structured I've dated less. I think girls at least ones that are in the 18-24 range like spontaneous freeflowing guys.
No, they are desirable and tend to do very well in their life and relationships.
Not necessarily, but they need to leave room for the person they want in their lives.
They're undesirable to irresponsible people for a romantic partner. Other than that, the irrisponsible person will want to use the disciplined person to hold something for them that they know they'll lose or other such responsible tasks.
Depends on culture. I grew up mostly around immigrants from about 30 different countries, and from what I've seen repeatedly... Easterners see being disciplined as desirable... particularly Chinese and SE Asians. Arabs do as well. Westerners make fun of it and usually avoid someone who is. An exception there are Mexicans, but other than them, most Westerners don't being disciplined as a quality trait.
No, it is undisciplined people that are undesirable.
The most respected person isn't the person who can control others; it's the person who can control themself.
Would you prefer someone who lacks discipline, and succumbs to temptation all the time?
Discipline is a good thing. People who are undisciplined tend to do poorly in school, lose jobs easily, be in trouble with the law, and be unhealthy. How is that desirable?
No. But personality is a bigger factor than discipline in a relationship.
If disciplined people are desirable I will just have to be extremely undisciplined
Noooooo!! Disciplined people are HIGHLY desirable. Which is why they don't hang out with slobs like me.
People find us boring, i am very disciplined and people don’t like it.
they are usually boring
I think it's the opposite
Generally they are desirable.
A disciplined man is my ideal partner.
If they are too disciplined they can be.
Not at all.
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