I work at a nightclub and my boyfriend came on a night out with his mates. Everything was fine until I saw him dancing with another girl. I had never seen this girl before and it was almost like he pulled her from the crowd and started dancing (not really but she wasn't there when I was making drinks then was after so in a few minutes.)
It really upset me. I cried and doorman told me he could kick them out but I didn't think it was worth that so went up to him on the dance floor and asked him to stop dancing with her. He said "you have nothing to worry about" but I just replied that if he was going to dance with other girls I'd rather he did it away from me as it was upsetting me at work. At that moment him, his three friends and the girl went upstairs.
Fyi, the dancing wasn't just like dancing next to each other it. It was spinning her around, grinding and so on. Intimate. Which is why it upset me.
I cried most of my shift and saw him towards the end. I explained how upset I was and he again assured me I had nothing to worry about that she was a friend and a lesbian. I pointed out that I didn't know she was a friend so to me just looked like a random woman from the dance floor. And lesbian or not, his actions upset me. He promised he'd meet up with me after my shift to talk it out.
I waited around afterwards but he admitted he had gone to bed. I asked if we could meet tomorrow and he said he'd let me know. I didn't want to tell him off, only explain my feelings on the matter but I understand he was drunk. I forgave him but honestly, I'm still hurt.
Seeing him dance with someone else, lesbian or not in front of me hurts. Makes me wonder what he does when I'm not there you know? I'm still crying now but he hasn't offered even an apology for it. Just that I don't need to worry.
It really upset me. I cried and doorman told me he could kick them out but I didn't think it was worth that so went up to him on the dance floor and asked him to stop dancing with her. He said "you have nothing to worry about" but I just replied that if he was going to dance with other girls I'd rather he did it away from me as it was upsetting me at work. At that moment him, his three friends and the girl went upstairs.
Fyi, the dancing wasn't just like dancing next to each other it. It was spinning her around, grinding and so on. Intimate. Which is why it upset me.
I cried most of my shift and saw him towards the end. I explained how upset I was and he again assured me I had nothing to worry about that she was a friend and a lesbian. I pointed out that I didn't know she was a friend so to me just looked like a random woman from the dance floor. And lesbian or not, his actions upset me. He promised he'd meet up with me after my shift to talk it out.
I waited around afterwards but he admitted he had gone to bed. I asked if we could meet tomorrow and he said he'd let me know. I didn't want to tell him off, only explain my feelings on the matter but I understand he was drunk. I forgave him but honestly, I'm still hurt.
Seeing him dance with someone else, lesbian or not in front of me hurts. Makes me wonder what he does when I'm not there you know? I'm still crying now but he hasn't offered even an apology for it. Just that I don't need to worry.
