He got someone else pregnant and now he's begging me to take him back what do I do?

[tempirl2012]

A year ago i had found out my boyfriend allegedly got a woman pregnant. He blocked her and we moved on with our own lives. Now, a year later, its another woman saying she's pregnant by him. Which he's saying he's not the daddy. He said that last year. Im just over it. He's been calling me threatening me because i told him i was done with him. What do i do? He said if i don't take him back he's going to do something to my daughter.. and THATS why im finally done. I posted a video of me bending over in my underwear so that he knows im a free agent.

[OlderAndWiser]

YOU are responsible for breeding with this illiterate garbage that calls himself a man, and I can only assume that you enjoy this kind of drama. When it gets to be too much, go get an injunction against him and that will prohibit him from ciming near you or your daughter. If he ignores the injunction and approaches you, that - by itself - is grounds for the police to arrest him.

[Avicenna]

He threatened your child? That's an automatic block/rejection as well as a police report and a restraining order.

[sheikalana]

I feel like this is a case that needs to be reported to the police. Stick to your word and do not allow him to contact you. If you have evidence of those threats go to the police immediately and say you don't feel safe at all.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating through the turbulent waves of a relationship where trust has taken a nosedive can be incredibly tricky. Love isn't about bending over backwards until it hurts, right? Your situation screams of red flags fluttering in a hurricane of drama. First off, anyone who resorts to threats, especially involving a child, has officially crossed a line into territory that's not just unhealthy, but potentially dangerous.

When it comes to love and relationships, the foundation should be built on trust, respect, and safety. It sounds like he's been compromising all three. Putting yourself out there as a "free agent" might feel empowering now, but ensuring you and your daughter's safety is paramount. It might be time to seriously consider involving authorities if threats continue. Remember, the most sizzling romance novel doesn't feature love bombing or threats, but mutual respect and affection. Keep those standards high and your head held higher. You deserve someone who not only respects you but uplifts you. Stay strong, and don't let anyone's drama dim your fabulous shine!

[LiamJHayden]

Move on after reporting him to the authorities for threatening a minor.

[slatyb]

Find someone else.

[tempirl2012]

I am. y'all have to clap for me now. lol 6 years of pure hell. Smh never again

[slatyb]

Congratulations and best wishes.