Guys, hypothetical: (you have the perfect wife, who you adore.) what does this perfect wife do for you to show her affection? beyond basics?

[Anonymous]

Guys, hypothetical: (you have the perfect wife, who you adore.) what does this perfect wife do for you to show her affection? beyond basics?

(I don't mean basics of cooking, cleaning, or s*x. I want to know the little details that make you feel loved.)

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So far I've got:
don't don't leave him.
Buy his clothes.
& Blowjobs.
Those standards are like graduating with a D- and still getting a diploma. 🤣
Like I'm trying for A+ in calculus.
I mean detailed the things most women miss or would flat out refuse.

[Anonymous]

1) Sweet- I want her to be always in a chill and positive mood with lot of enthusiasm. Never start a fight or argue over silly things, I would never do anything to make her mad intentionally either

2) Physical Affection- Always up for Cuddling and must be someone who loves physical affection like hugs and kisses. I am a big fan of cuddling to sleep and random kisses throughout the day. Just a random "Bye babe" followed by a forehead kiss is more than enough to make him understand your affection

3) Compliments- Being more specific, I am a fan of love notes. I'd love to write some short love notes if I leave as she is sleeping , it would be lovely to have some in return . It can be as simple as a "I love you ❤️" note or a text.

4) Surprises- Again I love coming up with random surprises , anything from as simple as flowers to big gifts. Now , I don't do that with an expectation of anything in return, but a smile followed by a tight hug and kiss would be awesome

5) Cooking - Nothing makes a man love a woman more than when she cooks him his favorite meal. It's so flattering that she knows what your favorite food is and cares enough to put in the effort to make it for you

6) Sex- I know you mentioned it, but still I must say that a woman initiating sex or putting in effort for it is always a sign of affection and care. Like when you return from a long day she has the house turned into a sexy atmosphere and she's standing there in a cute outfit with some wine on her hands, wow!

[Serkee]

I know you said you don't mean the basics like cooking or cleaning, but those basics are really what made me feel loved. Grand gestures, gifts, or kind words just can't compare in the slightest. When I was with my ex, I came home from work to dinner on my table for the first time. Ribs, corn, and mashed potatoes. It was such a simple gesture, but it nearly brought me to tears. It was like seeing a new color that I'd never seen before. Never in my life had I needed something so much and never known until I received it. I think that was the moment I truly fell in love with her. The way to a man's heart really is through his stomach.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the art of love! It's all about those small gestures that say, "I've got you," isn't it? Imagine she leaves love notes in your briefcase or sends flirty texts during a busy day, just to remind you she's thinking of you. Or maybe she plans surprise date nights, taking you back to places that hold special memories, having those heart-to-heart talks under the stars, reigniting that spark. 💕 It's the effort in remembering the little things, like your favorite dish after a rough day, or simply being there, offering a listening ear without judgment. Love is in the patience, understanding, and laughter shared over the smallest, most ridiculous things. It's about making each other's world brighter, one smile at a time. Let's not forget the power of a well-timed hug; it can be pure magic! 🌟

[MrOracle]

I don't need a lot - she needs to cuddle with me on the couch (unless it's summer heat), maybe put a blanket over me if I fell asleep, or make me an occasional sandwich or treat (brownies or cookies), that kind of thing. I don't need big gifts or big gestures - I just want to share my life with her and the occasional small kindness. That's plenty.

[normalice]

You say it is basic but literally just lots of blowjobs is all it takes for me.

[Asker]

So beyond receiving blowjobs.. is anything more detailed that you enjoy?
Ex- massages, taking your boots off for you after work.. little things?

[normalice]

Of course but if the option is ever any of those other things I enjoy or a blow job, I'd prefer a blow job. Back rubs, butt sex, and head scratches are nice amenities, don't get me wrong, but if she constantly wants to give me a blow job that's perfect because I constantly want one.

[Asker]

Okay so say your wife already gave oral 5 times in any given day, what else would make you feel like a pampered king? Lol 😜

[normalice]

Just one more but it lasts the rest of the day 😅

But if that's truly not an option due to reasons I enjoy being drawn. It's a weird thing, I know, but it gives me pleasant goosebumps.

[Asker]

Slow & sweet, little circles around the head.. before going faster, deeper, wife with ability to suppress gag reflex and willingly takes down throat.. enjoying giving, being enthusiastic and not sloppy or lazy about her work. - Details LOL 😜 women like details.

[Asker]

* Wife who know how to tighten muscles inside her... around your.. and gladly does so to show off her skills and tease.. details 🤣

[Asker]

When your husband is significantly older it sure is nice to get new ideas on things to do to constantly entertain. Nice to see his friends faces when I get introduced, and when he tells them stories.. 🤣 it's a high like no other.

[normalice]

What a king enjoys above all is not needing to tell his subjects to do what he wants them to do. A king wants to hold his undivided attention on his own pleasure with no thought to spare for what must occur to provide it. A woman who truly wants to treat me like a king, thus, is single minded about having it in her mouth and conducts poetry of the tongue, devoting the entirety of her creative energy and generosity to figuring out new ways to experience it, with the occasional burst of energy to empty the balls when they are full.

[Asker]

Love the details 👌

[Asker]

Thank you very much, off to serve the king. 😜

[normalice]

That said, there are some basics she needs to know. Most notably, avoid teeth at all costs. Keep her hair clean and smelling nice. Stay in shape. And should she want some attention in return, maintain a clean butt as I could at any moment need to put my tongue in it.

[TommyMountainFigure]

She treats me as if I am the most important person in her life!

And that is reciprocated!

[Truthatanycost]

If she is not a true woman of God then all of that list is meaningless!

[abc3643]

She doesn't fucking leave me.

[slatyb]

She buys my clothes. I hate shopping for clothes.