Guys, what do you want in a wife?

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Aysen · Accepted Answer

This may sound completely mushy but... I want a woman; a wife, who values quality time, who adores intimacy/romance and has a very nurturing/loving heart ❤

When I'm with my girlfriend, I can't help but to feel comfortable and happy around her! I enjoy doing things together with her whether if it's cooking a meal side by side, playing a cooperative board game together, holding hands while taking a walk in the park or even just cudding in bed having a conversation about life! I don't care about the money if we both have enough to get by and a little extra. I don't care about the background in which she came from if she's committed and only wants the best for the both of us! I don't mind if we have differences as long as we're open-minded and are able to do at least some things together!

I'd want to be able to be completely open and honest with her; to be able to express my deepest concerns with her without fear and for her to do the same! I'd want her to have a similar road map in our relationship with short and long term goals that we share and can achieve together both while dating and a married couple! Pretty much to make this short, I'd want her to be a part of my life, as much as possible 😊

CasuallySamsonite · Accepted Answer

A best friend that I can talk and laugh an share everything with and truly trust mutually.
A partner in crime, who is always up for an adventure, never squeamish about trying new things.
A lover who is always up for more, ready to set the sheets on fire with lust and to hold sweetly afterwards

for those qualities, I will compromise on pretty much all other traits, looks, religion, financial income, weight/body type... whatever else.

Canuck37 · Answer

1) Caring heart. She should have a heart for those in need around her. She should be a genuine good person.

1B) Intelligent mind. If I'm going to leave her alone with the children, I want to be able to trust that she isn't going to be a complete idiot. I'd like someone who understands finances enough that she isn't going to spend us into debt. Also, I'd like a conversation partner that's enlightening to talk to, not a dunce.

3) Easy conversation partner. It's not merely enough to be interesting to talk to; it should also be easy to talk to them. It would be a long few decades if it's hard to talk with your spouse!

4) Average attractiveness or better. As long as she's not actively ugly and takes care of her daily hygiene, she passes on this front. I'd like to be able to tell her that she's beautiful without lying.

5) Someone who actually likes me back. None of this "I guess I'll settle for him because he's pursuing me;" I want a girl who actually likes me.

6) Honesty. Faking orgasms isn't going to help either of us. Being open and honest with each other will help us meet each other's needs.

My current wife meets all of the above.

HighValue · Answer

18 to 30 (over 30 equals no interest), hasn't done any hook ups or ONS, doesn't do any drugs (no weed either), doesn't drink alcohol or drinks very rarely and is willing to quit, doesn't smoke, no kids from past relationships, but does want some with the right person, no contact with any ex, once in a relationship won't be posting revealing and flirty pictures online for attention, doesn't try to make NEW opposite gender friends, will be very affectionate with me and she initiates the affection sometimes too, doesn't have an immoral job or one that requires her to spend multiple days away from home (traveling), no tattoos or very few (each tattoo makes her less attractive to me), will exercise every week just like I will to stay healthy and in shape for long term, is not hypocritical, is not greedy (values money and jewelry over handmade thoughtful gifts and is always concerned about something's price to determine how much she likes it), sees special occasions as being for BOTH people in the relationship.

If she ever wants to get married she needs to agree to a prenuptial agreement where I keep all of my stuff.

crmoore · Answer

When it comes to physique (the first thing I look at but ultimately not as important as who she is on a personal, mental, or emotional level) I like girls who are particularly short. I like girls who are physically delicate and skinny with small frames. I like small breasts and a small, cute rear end. I like girls who are particularly feminine (both physically and mentally). Blue eyes are preferred. I love long, brown, slightly wavy hair (a bit past her mid-back) and especially so if it's in a ponytail, and love a girl whose collar bones and ribs are slightly defined/visible. But I also like girls who are just soft in general (like physically)?

When it comes to who she is as a person, I like girls who are really happy, upbeat, optimistic, bubbly, gentle, sweet, kind, caring, benevolent, dependent, clingy, helpless, fairly innocent (but not for too long, lol, or at least just seemingly), warm-hearted, and emotionally delicate (this is super attractive and cute). I think it's extremely cute when girls blush or get flushed. I think psychological neoteny is super sweet, cute, and endearing. I like good girls. I like girls who do cute things like lean over and kiss you on the cheek. I like girls who are a little quirky. I also like to make a lot of physical contact like holding hands and cuddling so that is fairly important. I also really enjoy a girl that I can just be open and honest with. I want the type of girl that I can just feel like I can be myself around and feel relaxed around.

StrongMale · Answer

Thanks for the question! I think what most guys want in a wife is pretty simple. They want a wife who is a lady on the town, but a vixen in the sack. Men are, by nature, very sexual creatures. And they desire a woman who will rock their world in bed, while being a cool, interesting and fun person to spend time with outside of the bedroom. Men want a woman who will not only accept their sexuality, but relish in it. They also want a woman who trusts them and admires them. And lastly, all guys want a wife they can totally trust! Hope that helps!

Clance · Answer

VERY SIMPLY 3 THINGS!

1. Loyal
2. Attractive
3. Fun to be around

These are the three most important things to me in a woman. She can be disorganized, needy, cry a lot, a little selfish, injured, sick, we can have different opinions, we can get into fights, so many other things but if she is attractive to me, LOYAL to me, and pleasing to be around I will love and cherish her.

And the attractive thing doesn't change for me. If I found a woman gorgeous once I pretty much always do. The only way a beautiful woman can become unattractive is if they gain way too much weight. A hot girl is hot when she is sick, crying, or old it doesn't go away to me.

ohshee · Answer

Somebody that has a beautiful heart that is smart intelligent is kind independent confident happy and loves to smile
She has to be a good lover a good kisser gentle slow motion not afraid to get dirty not afraid to be a girly girl she just has to be happy

AviatorTom · Answer

Here's my list, in priority order:
1. Female
2. Attractive, but doesn't need to be a model
3. Intelligent
4. Good personality
5. Independent, able to take care of herself (when necessary)
6. Enjoys sex, and doesn't mind if I occasionally take things in my own hands

oreojap · Answer

True loyalty, true forgiveness, understanding, a best friend, communication, a specific level of clinginess where I don't have to be attached to my phone but when we're together she wants to enjoy my presence while I fo my own thing or were doing something together

Jhonrembo · Answer

Okay great question. Wash, iron, prepare food, work, take care of children, pay bills, repair punctures if any, replace burnt lamps in the house, feed the horses, buy household products, take care of home entertainment programs that will not be boring, do massage, do sports training, do Sex and most importantly being after all these chores be nice and kind and think her husband is the most perfect in the world.😂😂😂. If I forgot something you can add.😉

ARWINGx1 · Answer

One thing I can say is that she'd respect my need for independence. And the "safest" kind of relationship (at least on my end) would be that she would also need to be ok with an Open Relationship. ('course, I know that it's common for people to NOT like that)

Anonymous · Answer

HAH! You hit the jackpot with this one. The moment a woman asks a question like you asked or similar questions like "How can I be a better wife?", now THAT'S the secret to become a proper wife material! Congratulations! You won! This is why I love girls and women.

By the way the same applies to men as well.

For each husband the conditions will vary.

Gast0n_III · Answer

Funny, at least somewhat intelligent, self-critical, reflective, introspective, and willing to try new things on occasion but is at home in her own mind and able to chill and enjoy the moment.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

A best friend who plays difficult video games with me, makes creative projects with me, and is sweet, bubbly, kind hearted, clingy, and loyal.
She needs to hate alcohol, smoking, pot, and all other drugs.
She also needs to be an atheist, and she has to like science, dinosaurs, bugs, sci-fi, fantasy, and anime/cartoons.
Oh and she has no not want any kids.

mstbooblover · Answer

Friendship, partnership, affection, open mindedness, sex, trust, confidence, the possibility to talk about everything and of course the ability to listen to each other.

Anonymous · Answer

I want her to sleep with other men when she feels bored, get an STD check up every 2 weeks & don't bitch at me when I'm the one bring in all the money. I want good morning honey, here's your breakfast in bed etc. I don't care if she sleeps with other men & she do whatever she wants as long as she doesn't touch my money without asking me, tells me what she needs it for, honest with me & gets her bi weekly STD check up.

OddBeMe · Answer

A woman who cooks, services me when I want and never speaks until spoken to.

Unfort girls like that are boring as shit. So I married a fiery Latina who can’t cook, makes me service her and is funny as fck.

Anonymous · Answer

It's very unlikely I'll get married, but if I did it would have to be with a more traditional woman and a more traditional relationship. The reality of modern marriage is that it's a poor choice for most men.

TheBootyChest · Answer

Someone who will talk to me about the important things, so we can understand one another.

clampfan101 · Answer

She needs to be a good Christian. I’d love a smart and nerdy/geeky woman.

grimreaper13 · Answer

Someone good in bed a freak In the sheets open mined woman who will share a woman or ts woman. someone who can cook looks sexxxyyyyyyyyy all the time like the same thing s as we do has there own money

Nigjt · Answer

Someone I enjoy being around an love with all of my heart an truly feels the same ways that I do about sex. God Bless

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Christian. Loves Jesus Christ above all.  Smart. Honest. Trustworthy. Submmisive. Doesn't start drama and fights. Amazing sex.

TrillXHippy · Answer

A girl who does not pretend to be interested in me when she was the one that was showing interest first

Pharez · Answer

Loyal and understanding, because this is what keeps the relationship together when love is fading away

JHNS98 · Answer

I'm not really in the space to think that far ahead at the moment... Sorry if my answer l disappointed you in any way.

Anonymous · Answer

faithful loving and loyal and honest kindness caring compassion understanding respectful and manners... things modern "women" (and i use that term as loose as they are) don't have

Shiningtempest · Answer

If I decided I want to get married to a woman, I want a shared interest in video games.

Seangreen · Answer

To be honest the way the things are in this world now I'd rather just not have a wife

legfetish · Answer

An open wife. I love my wife because we feed off our fetishes. I enjoy watching her get felt up and her legs kissed.

notwoke · Answer

a submissive fuckhole who follows orders in and out of bed

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