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Guys, what do you want in a wife?
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This may sound completely mushy but... I want a woman; a wife, who values quality time, who adores intimacy/romance and has a very nurturing/loving heart ❤
When I'm with my girlfriend, I can't help but to feel comfortable and happy around her! I enjoy doing things together with her whether if it's cooking a meal side by side, playing a cooperative board game together, holding hands while taking a walk in the park or even just cudding in bed having a conversation about life! I don't care about the money if we both have enough to get by and a little extra. I don't care about the background in which she came from if she's committed and only wants the best for the both of us! I don't mind if we have differences as long as we're open-minded and are able to do at least some things together!
I'd want to be able to be completely open and honest with her; to be able to express my deepest concerns with her without fear and for her to do the same! I'd want her to have a similar road map in our relationship with short and long term goals that we share and can achieve together both while dating and a married couple! Pretty much to make this short, I'd want her to be a part of my life, as much as possible 😊
A best friend that I can talk and laugh an share everything with and truly trust mutually. A partner in crime, who is always up for an adventure, never squeamish about trying new things. A lover who is always up for more, ready to set the sheets on fire with lust and to hold sweetly afterwards
for those qualities, I will compromise on pretty much all other traits, looks, religion, financial income, weight/body type... whatever else.
1) Caring heart. She should have a heart for those in need around her. She should be a genuine good person.
1B) Intelligent mind. If I'm going to leave her alone with the children, I want to be able to trust that she isn't going to be a complete idiot. I'd like someone who understands finances enough that she isn't going to spend us into debt. Also, I'd like a conversation partner that's enlightening to talk to, not a dunce.
3) Easy conversation partner. It's not merely enough to be interesting to talk to; it should also be easy to talk to them. It would be a long few decades if it's hard to talk with your spouse!
4) Average attractiveness or better. As long as she's not actively ugly and takes care of her daily hygiene, she passes on this front. I'd like to be able to tell her that she's beautiful without lying.
5) Someone who actually likes me back. None of this "I guess I'll settle for him because he's pursuing me;" I want a girl who actually likes me.
6) Honesty. Faking orgasms isn't going to help either of us. Being open and honest with each other will help us meet each other's needs.
18 to 30 (over 30 equals no interest), hasn't done any hook ups or ONS, doesn't do any drugs (no weed either), doesn't drink alcohol or drinks very rarely and is willing to quit, doesn't smoke, no kids from past relationships, but does want some with the right person, no contact with any ex, once in a relationship won't be posting revealing and flirty pictures online for attention, doesn't try to make NEW opposite gender friends, will be very affectionate with me and she initiates the affection sometimes too, doesn't have an immoral job or one that requires her to spend multiple days away from home (traveling), no tattoos or very few (each tattoo makes her less attractive to me), will exercise every week just like I will to stay healthy and in shape for long term, is not hypocritical, is not greedy (values money and jewelry over handmade thoughtful gifts and is always concerned about something's price to determine how much she likes it), sees special occasions as being for BOTH people in the relationship.
If she ever wants to get married she needs to agree to a prenuptial agreement where I keep all of my stuff.
When it comes to physique (the first thing I look at but ultimately not as important as who she is on a personal, mental, or emotional level) I like girls who are particularly short. I like girls who are physically delicate and skinny with small frames. I like small breasts and a small, cute rear end. I like girls who are particularly feminine (both physically and mentally). Blue eyes are preferred. I love long, brown, slightly wavy hair (a bit past her mid-back) and especially so if it's in a ponytail, and love a girl whose collar bones and ribs are slightly defined/visible. But I also like girls who are just soft in general (like physically)?
When it comes to who she is as a person, I like girls who are really happy, upbeat, optimistic, bubbly, gentle, sweet, kind, caring, benevolent, dependent, clingy, helpless, fairly innocent (but not for too long, lol, or at least just seemingly), warm-hearted, and emotionally delicate (this is super attractive and cute). I think it's extremely cute when girls blush or get flushed. I think psychological neoteny is super sweet, cute, and endearing. I like good girls. I like girls who do cute things like lean over and kiss you on the cheek. I like girls who are a little quirky. I also like to make a lot of physical contact like holding hands and cuddling so that is fairly important. I also really enjoy a girl that I can just be open and honest with. I want the type of girl that I can just feel like I can be myself around and feel relaxed around.
Thanks for the question! I think what most guys want in a wife is pretty simple. They want a wife who is a lady on the town, but a vixen in the sack. Men are, by nature, very sexual creatures. And they desire a woman who will rock their world in bed, while being a cool, interesting and fun person to spend time with outside of the bedroom. Men want a woman who will not only accept their sexuality, but relish in it. They also want a woman who trusts them and admires them. And lastly, all guys want a wife they can totally trust! Hope that helps!
These are the three most important things to me in a woman. She can be disorganized, needy, cry a lot, a little selfish, injured, sick, we can have different opinions, we can get into fights, so many other things but if she is attractive to me, LOYAL to me, and pleasing to be around I will love and cherish her.
And the attractive thing doesn't change for me. If I found a woman gorgeous once I pretty much always do. The only way a beautiful woman can become unattractive is if they gain way too much weight. A hot girl is hot when she is sick, crying, or old it doesn't go away to me.
Somebody that has a beautiful heart that is smart intelligent is kind independent confident happy and loves to smile She has to be a good lover a good kisser gentle slow motion not afraid to get dirty not afraid to be a girly girl she just has to be happy
Here's my list, in priority order: 1. Female 2. Attractive, but doesn't need to be a model 3. Intelligent 4. Good personality 5. Independent, able to take care of herself (when necessary) 6. Enjoys sex, and doesn't mind if I occasionally take things in my own hands
True loyalty, true forgiveness, understanding, a best friend, communication, a specific level of clinginess where I don't have to be attached to my phone but when we're together she wants to enjoy my presence while I fo my own thing or were doing something together
Okay great question. Wash, iron, prepare food, work, take care of children, pay bills, repair punctures if any, replace burnt lamps in the house, feed the horses, buy household products, take care of home entertainment programs that will not be boring, do massage, do sports training, do Sex and most importantly being after all these chores be nice and kind and think her husband is the most perfect in the world.😂😂😂. If I forgot something you can add.😉
One thing I can say is that she'd respect my need for independence. And the "safest" kind of relationship (at least on my end) would be that she would also need to be ok with an Open Relationship. ('course, I know that it's common for people to NOT like that)
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