Guys, what would be your ideal wife? What are you looking for if you want to have one?

[Anonymous]

[MCheetah]

PERSONALITY:

1. Kind/positive
2. Accepting/nonjudgmental
3. Open-minded
4. Intelligent
5. Strong sense of humor
6. Strong work ethic
7. Patient; not easily offended or bothered
8. Politically moderate (not too liberal or conservative)
9. Strictly heterosexual and monogamous
10. (Optional) Nerdy; into video games or superheroes

PHYSICAL:

11. Tall: 5'10" to 6'5"
12. Curvaceous; big boobs, big booty, thick thighs, etc.
13. Feminine style
14. (Optional) Redhead (or strawberry blonde, or blonde)
15. (Optional) Young: Between 20 and 30. [23-34 ideal age range]

DEALBREAKERS:

1. Feminist/far-left/woke
2. Bisexual (gay)
3. Open relationship type/polyamorous (an adulterer)
4. Abusive in any way, physical or verbally (a bitch)
5. Was born/is male (transwoman)
6. Isn't single/is a cheater

My dream woman is someone with a personality that is kind, caring, and positive, though not without trying or effort expended. She is funny, or at least has a strong sense of humor and loves a good joke. She’s extroverted, which is a nice compliment to my introversion. She’s wicked intelligent and has a sharp mind, but not so much so that it makes it hard for her to relate to most people (like me). She’s more so “clever” than “brilliant.” She’s open-minded and willing to try new things. She’s also firm and stands up for what she believes in and doesn’t let people walk all over her, despite her kind demeanor. She also loves animals. She’s very feminine, though not ditzy or daft. She enjoys being a woman and all the perks that come with it, like dressing up and exuding sexuality. She’s fashionable, but in a very down-to-earth way and only uses makeup modestly.

In her day-to-day life, she’s a people person, social butterfly, and very customer service oriented. I imagine her having had previous jobs of working in a call center, as a bank teller, insurance sales, and as a property leasing manager before taking a job as a registered nurse or something in the medical field. She’s very hard working and likely grew up with struggles and difficulties, which is how she got her kind personality; through enduring hardships and struggles.

Her hobbies would include music, playing the piano, painting, gardening, and cooking. She’d be incredibly good at cooking. I imagine she would be somewhat nerdy in a casual way (with her own fangirling being towards Batman and the DC universe), but I would introduce her to video games and hope that she would eventually get into gaming like me after I start her off with a Pokemon Soul Silver ROM or buy her a Nintendo Switch for her birthday and introduce her to Breath of the Wild.

Physically, she’s tall (5′10″ to 6′5″), though it’s not a requirement. She’s redheaded, or even blonde or strawberry blonde (but her hair color in real life would be inconsequential). She’s thick/curvy/plus-sized with wide womanly hips, a large bust, and a fairly nice rump. She has clear skin (achieved through effort and moisturizer, not naturally), perfect white teeth, long flowing locks, and the most beautiful radiant smile.

As far as flaws go… I imagine she’s forgetful at times and constantly has to keep notes or scheduled events in her phone to avoid forgetting things and coming off inconsiderate. She probably likes cats more than dogs. (And that’s a flaw to me!) She likes DC over Marvel (though still would enjoy the Marvel Cinematic Universe). She may sometimes come off as naïve and trust the wrong people too much or be taken advantage of by people who know how to sweet-talk her. She’s not honest when she’s upset or feeling distraught, because she doesn’t want to burden people with her baggage, though I imagine this would make relationship hurdles a bit harder between us. She could potentially be religious, though that’s a minor flaw for me because I am agnostic-atheist and don’t follow any religions or worship any deities, though I don’t mind other people who are religious. She’s into men who are “confident” and finds that to be the most attractive trait in a guy, which kinda sucks because I myself dislike high self-pride in people, and this is what she (and pretty much, all straight women) find attractive in a man. And lastly, she’s more left-leaning than I’d like her to be, capitulating to every “protected class” of people and easily-offended types and their ridiculous entitlements, though she’s still far from a progressive.

[iluvtoknow]

That's quite a question, but an interesting one. Thanks for asking!

I don't really care all that much about looks. I don't like tattoos and I don't like obesity, but other than that all that really matters there is that she's hygienic and healthy (and I do mean that.) Taking care of your body is important.

The bulk of my attraction is going to come from my wife's personality. There are plenty of things about a girl's personality that I find attractive and it really varies from person to person. Everyone has their own idiosyncrasies, and often-times it is only as you get to know a person (or start to fall for them) that they start to become endearing!

But having said that, there are some standard personality traits that I really like in a wife someday, so I've made this list. Of course no one is perfect and I don't expect them to be, but the more of these traits the better.

Friendliness

I mean this in two senses.

First, it would mean the world if she were my close friend before we were dating, so we would have a very concrete bond beforehand. Strong friendships that don't require anything more, if one chooses, lead to the best strong, self-sufficient romantic relationships in my opinion.

Second, it would be fantastic if she were an overall nice and friendly person to people. You know, swearing at a minimum, always treating people with decency and kindness, and just all the things that one thinks of when they think of friendliness. It doesn't have to be over the top, but just there.

Intelligence

I also mean this in two senses.

First, I think it would be fantastic if at school she was a student that worked hard and was pretty smart. From experience, intelligence creates deeper personalities, higher standards of humor and else, and if they don't overload themselves, a happier and cooler human being.

Second, I think it would be fantastic if she was cautious. –if she thought before she did things and didn't act recklessly. In other words, self-control is great. It also shows the guy, if she is interested in a relationship with a guy, that she has thought before the decision to be with him and hence is more meaningful. (That one minute possible reason for this being a good thing; there are plenty more.)

Equality

I would want this girl to believe that she is my equal in every way. What I mean by that is this: Some people believe in gender roles like that men are supposed to be strong, always take care of the needs of his woman, always pay the bill, be the one in charge, and watch over their woman; while women are supposed to be over-emotional, over-romantic, needy, being catered to, and pay back their man sexually. I hate this so much.

Ideally, I'd have it be that the girl and the boy are complete equals (as previously stated.) If the man wants to treat the woman, he might pay for one thing. If the woman wants to treat the man, she might pay for another. If someone is feeling kind one day, s/he might get the door, etc.

But overall there would be nothing that one person has to do for the other because of their gender. What happens should happen because of affection, care, or love, and nothing else.

I'm going to continue in the comments since I've met the word limit. But feel free to comment if I was helpful or you have any comments or questions! I love getting responses!

[iluvtoknow]

Confidence

I would want the girl to be confident. Both she and I should be able to start conversations without becoming a nervous wreck and we should trust each other enough to not live in fear of judgement all the time. Friendship would help with that. But as a general rule, people are more inclined to spend time with people who demonstrate that they want to spend time with them. That's not to say she can't have a bad day once in a while; being there for your partner is an important thing. But she should be able to stand on her own two legs in general.

But to be clear, an attractive girl is confident in the sense that they don't feel limited and are able to stand on their own when they need to, but not to the extent that they are never able to let their guard down and be vulnerable with their partner or are so 'confident' that they don't listen to others and do whatever they want just because they can despite their peers' or their partner's protest (unless there's an actual reason.) In other words, they shouldn't let 'confidence' become arrogance and they should still be able to have a sensitive side; that's what makes people human. And in the relationship, vulnerability is just as important and confidence. I think if there's a solid foundation of trust, some vulnerability among partners goes a long way and can really solidify a bond.

[iluvtoknow]

Modesty

I'd want her not to want to wear clothes that reveal to much, speak too sexually, or act too sexually. I understand that's too much to ask for some people, but it's a bit thing to people like me. Sexual stuff can wait until a few years of a relationship have passed in my book at least.

And today's society leads to people spending a lot of time analyzing their appearance and trying to look attractive, which often gets mixed up with being as promiscuous as possible. People seem to associate beauty with the amount of cleavage shown sometimes, rather than an art in itself. I hate that, and while I know and like quite a few people who show more skin than I'd like ideally, I would strongly prefer that they didn't. I don't think it does much good except to attract people sexually, and I don't think that leads to much but attracting the kinds of people a lot of girls want to avoid anyway. Plus, it's also a peer pressure thing.

[iluvtoknow]

Liking Me

It goes without saying, but I'll say it anyways, it would be cool if they liked me too.

[Leavesbound]

She has to like me to start with. Not just love but also like and those are two different things. She should have good maternal instincts. So either she needs to already have a kid or pets so I can tell about that. She should have some common interests with me. I don't believe in fairy tales so she can't be a hyperreligionist. I'd prefer someone with similar politics and values and she can't be a smoker. Notice I didn't mention anything about her looks or sex. She doesn't have to have model looks but it would be nice if she had a nice smile. And as for sex, I'll find out what she likes and pretty much go with that, my own needs are simple.

[ChrisMaster69]

Confident, intelligent, feisty, independent, her own person not a follower, happy to buck social trends. Respectful, believes in Trust, wants her own career and not quiet or timid etc.

physically. - small boobs, possibly have tattoos and piercings ( not a deal breaker lol) Red hair, vibrant dyed or blonde.

Basically someone strong enough to put up with me being a me lol.

[Turrorrr]

she would be my best friend but she would also have some physical/emotional triggers which really turn me on.

[bamesjond0069]

Traditional virgin caring sweet cooks cleans love kids not older than 22 but 25 ok at absolute most if she super hot. She should be thin and physically appealing at minimum looks wise.

[Anonymous]

Virgin, wants kids, loyalty, honesty, and kindness. Likes board games, baseball, and/or anime. Doesn't smoke or do drugs, doesn't care about pets, doesn't want anal. Higher than average sex drive, oral fixation, and enjoys breast stimulation.

[Shihab91]

A woman with values, so she raises our children with these values

[Scotte1us]

Knows how to cook and iron and be very clean, and seductive, not dull, humurous, sexy,

[JesseJayNeak]

An old school girl. Aka the one that always supports you

[Bobby_Deol]

She should be a girl... Thsts enough 😂
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[FilmGuy93]

Playful, adventurous, honest, supportive

[BIG-BLACK-Robinson]

White, fat ass,