Guys, What are you looking for in a wife?

[Anonymous]

What traits are you looking for in a wife? What are your dealbreakers? Any descriptions or traits are welcome by the way, I just genuinely want to know what you think

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Must be a God fearing woman.

Is smart.

Honest.

Loyal.

Gives great sex.

Doesn't cause me stress nor trouble.

* Her being funny will be a great welcome bonus

Dealbreakers.

Abuses alcohol or drugs.

Causes me trouble or annoyance.

Is stupid.

Smokes cigarettes.

[Asker]

Thank you for this specific response!
How do you know if she is God fearing? What specific behaviors or beliefs would that entail? Also I don’t understand what specific behaviors constitute trouble or annoyance. She is human after all. If you two really do have an honest and healthy relationship, you’re going to bother eachother eventually no matter how much you try not to.

Everything else on the list makes sense to me. As for the dealbreakers, the drug ones make a lot of sense. Addiction or substance abuse is the type of thing you should deal with before you commit to a marriage. And stupidity is one of my dealbreakers as well tbh, I just can’t deal with it in large doses 😂

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I would know she's God fearing if she actually obeys the Bible.

Annoying would entail she doesn't shut up or being needy

[Asker]

So she’s not supposed to talk to you or have emotional needs…It sounds like you might have a problem with women. Tbh I don’t think you’re mature enough to be looking for a wife right now

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You missed the point.