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which would you rather receive from an ex? which would make you want her back the most if you dumped her?

1. “Hey, I just wanted to thank you for going to the library with me the other day, I just mailed the forms😊 I hope you’re doing well!”

2. *snapchat of something that reminds you of them*

3. “hey how are you doing?”

4. “hey, i just want to make sure you’re positive you don’t want me around anymore, because i know i wasn’t treating you right, i want you to know i’m sorry and honestly it was cause i was nervous around you too, i wasn’t being myself. it takes time to get to know someone and be comfortable. i felt the same way, everything was a little rushed i just couldn’t say no to being your girlfriend the last thing i wanted to do was hurt you. so if you’re definitely not going to want to be with me i understand, it’s okay, but if you wanted to we could even just start being friends and see what happens, and if we just stay friends or not then whatever i won’t pressure you into anything cause i’m not even sure how i feel about the situation i just see you as a nice funny guy that’s been hurt and deserves the world and that’s something i can’t pass up so easy, it’s hard to find a guy who is just a great guy these days. i feel foolish asking this because if you wanted to be here you would, but i thought about the situation throughly and realized i wasn’t doing anything but making the situation worse.”

I met a guy on Bumble. We had talked about 4-5 hours, texting and he invited me to dinner on Sunday telling me that he really finds me interesting. We kinda hit it off in our conversation and he seems like a nice person.


But I had a terrible past relationship that I had met online but never asked his intentions, and dated about 8 months only to find out that he was playing with me and using me only for sex. I was a little naive at that time since it was my very first time using online dating, and he seemed nice and we had a lot in common. And another relationship again i met online we dated 3 months and I didn't have sex until the mark of third month. He was all lovey-dovey including me in his life and everything. We had sex when he told me that he was ready for commitment. But I found out after first sex when he texted me that he was only trying me how long I was going to resist him. He even congratulated me cuz the other girls had sex with him after 1.5-2 weeks, while it took him 3.5 months for me. And basically he ended things in a fuck and dump situation. I did not ask him his intentions either at the first date because I thought I would come off as scary.

Now I want to ask to make sure that we are on the same page. Because I am really not looking for casual sex. I like to invest time into something real. I don't wanna be someone's trial and error to see how long I would take to open my legs. Should I ask him what his intentions are or is it useless to ask since he may simply lie to me to have sex?