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I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year. 6 months into the relationship, we took a trip out of town for the weekend. But when we returned, he tells me, that he has to move out of his apartment within 3 days, because he's getting evicted for failure to pay rent. Had I known this, I would have cancelled the trip and had him to take care of his situation.

He owed his Landlord $1,900.00 but he only had $800.00. His rent is only $800.00 a month. Since he couldn't live with me, because I have a teenage son (whom he hasn't met) I offered to loan him $1,100.00 to pay the difference, which he agreed to pay me back. He's a transit operator, who has been on his job for many years, so he makes great money.

However, before I could give him the money for his rent, he gave the $800.00 he had to his ex-wife for alimony. He is court ordered to pay her $1,200.00 a month for alimony. Once he told me that, I told him, it was no point of giving him the $1,100.00 I had, if he didn't have the diffence to pay the rent, and the Lanlord would not accept no less than the $1,900.00 he owed, so I kept my $1,100.00. After he was evicted, he stayed with his brother for about 5 months, until his brother put him out. I lost my job about a week after his brother put him out. Since his brother put him out, he's been staying at hotels & motels here and there for the past few weeks, and was angry with me, for not offering to contribute any money towards his hotels and feels I just left him out in the cold. He also feels that I financially help other people, instead of him. I had to remind him that I tried to help him with his rent, but he scrwed that up. I told him, he's gonna have to take responsibilty for why he's in this situation, and do what he needs to do, to get himself together. Was I wrong for telling him Im not helping him towards his hotel rooms, since he didn't do right by the help I offered him with his rent?