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Search Results: approaching women in bars
Kind/soft face with masculine swagger. Can this be attractive?
I've been called cute or pretty about as much as I've been called hot. I'm a slim and toned guy standing at 5'10. Girls have told me I have big expressive eyes and a very "innocent" looking face. I'm Asian so I guess big...
Anonymous
(36-45) Found out he is married... what now?
The other night I went out to a bar. A guy approached me and said he "had to come over to talk to me." We chatted for a while about ourselves, talking about our schoolwork, jobs, and other quirky facts. I asked him his...
agent89201
Xper 5 Age: 33 How do I get over being attracted to women?
I'm so tired of being attracted to women. It all started in middle school when kids were first kissing and people had crushes; i remember being so sad because no girls liked me and the girl I liked told me she would never...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do I never get asked for my number or asked out?
I'm a pretty woman... I'm tall, 5'10" have pretty blue eyes, decent skin, I'm a little over weight but not fat by any means. No guys ever approach me in bars or in general even. I dont know why. I'm 25 and have been...
sharp-citrus
Xper 5 Age: 36 Am I Reading Too Much Into This?
So I broke with a woman I dated for a few months. She was not a bad person, but a bit of a princess. She is very attractive and is not used to guys breaking up with her. After some NC and initial awkwardness, we were...
chx000
Xper 6 Age: 42 Why do women always think I'm hitting on them? I worked in hospitality and even a simple hello, will get me looks of disgust and no response?
I worked in bars around the world and always my most valued customers were older women but if a younger lady, weather she was attractive or not, come into the venue. no matter how I approached them or greeted them i would...
Yc2K15
Xper 6 Age: 38 Looking for a girlfriend but have few options, what can I do?
Hi there, I'm a 23 year old man who's only just begun dating and is looking for a girlfriend. I just moved 1500 miles from home, leaving most of my social circle back there, I work quite a bit, most of my encounters with...
Waziman
Xper 5 Age: 35 With all this talk about "10 Hours Walking in New York as a Woman" business, how am I supposed to approach women casually?
I get not to be like "Hey bby, lemme get inside you" and "Ayyyyy girl, you lookin fine today!" but it sounds like most women do not like to be approached at all by men. What would be a good place (not bars) or way to...
DrAdamantium
Xper 4 Age: 33 Something that really irritaes me with some guys?
it just really annoys me when guys aren't straight forward when they want sex or when they just asume that when a girl approaches them and talks to them that that means they want to have sex with you. I have witnes it and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Beer goggles ... Kejdjdmdkeksmskekskdkeksmsksk?
I've been told that men find ugly women attractive when they are drunk. I work in the city so I finish work in the evening when people are going I to town to party, I always seem to get guys whistling, getting in my what...
Anonymous
(30-35) Approached by a transgender person who was flirting with me... turned her down, now I'm the bad guy?
So she comes onto me last night at this bar with my friends... I turn her down telling her I'm not interested and she goes "Is it something to do with the way I look" ... I told her that I just don't feel "comfortable"...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys: What Techniques Do You Use To Attract/Pick up Women?
I'm actually trying to get back into the dating game... and I've been going out to bars/clubs, trying to enhance my social skills and trying to talk to women. I typically have approach anxiety when I try to approach...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to know she's attracted to you?
Hey, I am really shy/awkward. I also have a relatively low self esteem. This makes it extremely difficult for me to approach women. My question is, how do I know a girl I am attracted to is attracted to me? And when I...
handbanana
Xper 4 Age: 35 Where Did You Meet Your Current Girlfriend or Boyfriend?
Lately, I've been pretty depressed... because I can't seem to meet the right women. I've been on a few dates during the past few weeks with women I met on Tinder -_-... but there was no connection. I would really like to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Im an attractive swm living in the south (Knoxville, Tn); how can I meet and how should I approach an attractive black woman?
Long story short, with the exception of college (which I have already graduated) there aren't many opportunities to meet attractive black women where I live. I dont like bars or meeting women in this type of venue. Other...
one12oh6
Xper 5 Age: 47 Would you date a guy who is a bouncer at a bar?
yes, no? why or why not? I recently met a bouncer while I was out a week ago. I normally don't approach bouncers but I was really attracted to him and thought it might be fun. He's 23. I'm a bit older than him. Now that...
Anonymous
(36-45) Where can I meet women besides a bar?
Very scared to approach women, a friend at work gave me some tips. Where can i meet women besides a bar?
ZepFan16
Xper 4 Age: 48 Dating for women over 30 or 40
Dating for women over 30 or 40 can be a special issue all on its own. Obviously, the dating and marriage trends vary wildly depending on where you live. I’m here in NYC and 30 is PRIME dating age for the women here. It’s...
Hunt-Ethridge
Xper 5 Age: 50 Am I ready? friends with benefits vs relationship... finding the right woman?
I've been feeling a bit depressed l8ly. im 27 and i have been in 3 relationships with 2 different women... the first lasted a year and was in high school the 2nd was with the same girl and we started talking again online...
VanillaSalt
Yoda Age: 38 Why do women despise me? (Pics and description of me included)?
I don't know what is so bad about me. I just don't want to be alone. I literally have a 0% success rate though, no women are interested in me. I can't meet women through friends as all my friends are males who are...
Anonymous
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