Would you date a guy who is a bouncer at a bar?

[Anonymous]

yes, no? why or why not?

I recently met a bouncer while I was out a week ago. I normally don't approach bouncers but I was really attracted to him and thought it might be fun. He's 23. I'm a bit older than him. Now that I got to know him I am not sure about dating a guy who works in a bar. He is always around women.. And he told me the other guys who work there hook up with girls all the time. Ugh..

yes

no

[SteveZissou]

If you want to ask him out, then give him your number. If you're a girl thats not afraid of asking him out, then do it. Maybe he'll call you instead. But remember that if his friends sleep with a lot of girls at the bar, then he probably does too. It'll be complicated to establish if he wants to go out on a date with you, or just fuck you. It make take some time, but I think the only way to do find that out would be to go out with him on a few "non-physical contact" dates, like no fucking afterwards. If he's able to do that, then maybe sleep with him on like the 3rd-4th-5th date or something. If he just wants to fuck, he'll probably be frustrated that you're not fucking him on 1st date and will disappear. Then you'll have your answer.

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[PiuBelloAmante]

If you like him do it! Who cares what his co-workers do and what others think. go on a date and see for yourself where it can lead!

[zombiebabe]

seriously i won't date that guy

[Oddesteagle1]

Hey, im a bouncer at a pretty popular club, and yes it’s crazy. I just turned 40 and i get hot a lot by all ages of women. I admire their confidence sometimes. I take my job seriously, and I’m progressional at all times. That means you’d never see me being overly flirty towards women, especially ones who are intoxicated, it’s my job to ensure their safety. Just to be nice and not rude i do give out my number, but i don’t use my job and my workplace as a means for notching my belt, that’s incredibly unfair. There have been a few times I’ve been captivated by beauty, i typically just give them a warm smile and remind myself to be professional. I do not sleep with our patrons but if one day the universe havens to grant my wish i might give in to being swept off my feet, but as a prodessional she would have to probably approach me. If you wanna see a man’s true colors, observe the way he treats others, men who seek constant attention are searching for something with in themselves and probably gain self worth from unhealthy habits— like sleeping around. If you ask him for his number and returns your call and wants to go for s walk and get to know- that’sa good sign. Late night calls in the early morning are a red flag.

[YannaBanana]

If he's good to you then go for him

[Anonymous]

if you just want to have fun,
Go date with him