What are your thoughts on the new Drizzle Drizzle men's soft guy era movement?

[coachTanthony]

Drizzle drizzle soft guy era is the male response to sprinkle sprinkle , which was a movement by women embracing more traditional gender roles where men are expected to be providers and women focus on “embracing their feminine” which usually means adherence to strict beauty standards, emotional labor, and sometimes domestic work. Men saying "Drizzle drizzle" just flips the script on gender roles. (basically “see how YOU like it”)

It's also a response to the TikTok women who say "don't date broke men" or "a man needs to pay for dates and my bills." The drizzle drizzle movement by men in 2024 is only dating financially stable women and having them pay for dates/the man's bills. What say you?

[Lliam]

I don't pay attention to silly nonsense like this that gets circulated on-line. It's for sad people who never had healthy role models or learned how to interact with others.

This men versus women crap is ridiculous.

[handsomelad70]

Yes, but it gets millions of clicks, so lots of folk subscribe to it.

[Lliam]

@handsomelad70. Clicks doesn't mean all those people subscribe to the idea. Nevertheless, there are a lot of stupid, confused people out there.

[handsomelad70]

You got that right, Lliam.

[Lliam]

Thanks for the MHO, Coach. :-)

[handsomelad70]

The average REAL man can be hard or soft depending on the situation.

[handsomelad70]

How 'bout an opinion, Love Doctor Brad?

[worldscolide]

It's a joke and a direct response to that bitch that started "sprinkle sprinkle"

[CriticalCatDad]

I thought it was drip drip

[worldscolide]

Possible

[handsomelad70]

@CriticalCatDad Dion DiMucci sang "Drip, Drop" in 1963.

[sirderpsalot123]

Is the "sprinkle sprinkle" the one who just talks a bunch of shit about her rich husband while he's sitting across the table from her?

[worldscolide]

Yup exactly

[Rosexøxø]

I’m sorry I can’t take this seriously lol 😂 I just liked how the end of the article said

“what say you.”

lol I read that in a comical tone and I don't know I just like the whole post now because of that. I have no opinion on the movement and I accept it as fact. Even if it is fact all across the board. I still live my life according to what’s logical. Men can’t do that. If they want to “flip the script.” It’s just my proof my man never loved me and it’s proof some men out there are either hating the male dominant world or they’re gay.

Probably a good handful with valid emotions and hurts but they’re going about it in an immature way.

Men always had trouble listening to women, hearing them out… sooo for them to do this is just gluing up ears and turning a blind eye. Or whatever. I would just have to choose not to associate with such men. Unless I’m not dating and I just observe their decisions and hear their train of thought on all of that. I’d like to even observe their dating life with women moving forward in that. I wouldn’t ever get involved with one though.

Im married so if my husband just randomly did this with no communication or consideration. Some compromise even. I’d have to try yelling at him or ignoring him lol. I don’t think he ever would. Our relationship doesn’t have this gender problems. We look out for each other and neither of us waited for the other to do it first or whatever. 🤷‍♀️ So I guess we lucked out.

[Rosexøxø]

Can’t accept it as fact.* or
Reality.

[liggang]

I think it's silly. All of these men claiming to be "real men" but also want to reject the entire system of "real manhood" which requires men to provide, defend, and guide.

So which is it? Do you want traditional masculinity or not?

It just makes zero sense to me. All the red pill idiots. All the conservatives. All the men with fragile masculinity want to embrace "manhood" but don't want to embrace the root of it all which is men's relative place in evolutionary terms as providers defenders and guides.

And what do these women want? They just men to degrade them and fuck them like base animals and see women as inferior beings. They get off on that.

But they're mad because they don't want to be inferior they want to be equals but equality is impossible when being a "real" man or woman means very specific things like traditional gender roles demand.

So basically everyone is fighting against traditional gender roles, even those who claim to believe in it are fighting against it.

[handsomelad70]

No wonder most folk are confused.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

I don't think it's a movement. I think it's just a bunch of guys talking crap online. Nothing wrong with that.

I don't think the "drizzle drizzle" guys really mean what they say. They're just making fun of "sprinkle sprinkle" women. Again, nothing wrong with that.

For that matter, "sprinkle sprinkle" isn't a movement either. It's a bunch of mostly overweight, middle-aged women fantasizing online about having a sugar daddy. Which seems pointless, but whatever.

So really the whole thing is just a bunch of people in the internet bubble, talking about talking. If that's how they want to spend their time, more power to them.

[RingOfFire]

It all boils down to DNA, biology and millions of years of human evolution. Based on this, men and women have different roles in the family unit (a unit that is the nucleus of human survival without which we would not be here to discuss it). The roles are clearly defined by these biological and evolutionary differences. Men are designed to provide, protect and handle the physically challenging tasks and women are designed to bear children and take the primary role in raising them to an age when they can fend for themselves.

You can deny it, you can hate it, you can have seizures about it, but reality does not change just to conform to fantasies. So all of these diversions are fantasy.

[handsomelad70]

Ever hear of Purnal Goldy? (I know you haven't, because Goldy played MLB in the early 60's, when even I was a little chap.) Anyway, Goldy, briefly a Detroit Tiger in 1962, had a good week, faded, was sent to the minors and disappeared... until the 80's when we discovered that the handsome Goldy had wed an heiress. So perhaps Goldy was one of the first "Drizzle Drizzle dudes.(Why do these "movements" have dumb names?) I could have wed a rich broad had I found one willing to marry me, and with my still-boyish good looks at 70, I bet I could even today. (In other words, I'd LOVE to be a "Drizzle Drizzle" dude, boyos !!!)

[Joshydavid25]

It's understandable, but also kinda silly.. I really don't support it.. I'll just keep looking for a woman that's actually looking for love and to have a family..

[Rosexøxø]

Yeah this seems like a response with a different objective. You seem to have a nice objective. If you find a loving woman this means you won’t hurt her and she won’t hurt you. Seems like healthy people. This flip script seems like people not intending to enter relationships and are trying to brainstorm and negotiate coexisting terms and conditions of what’s fair. Just brainstorming and proving points in their free time. Not people who seem to be looking or even ready to settle down in all honesty.

How is anyone ready for relationship if they aren’t working on themselves and what they want out of life and for their own lives? They’re looking for certain treatment from others? Seems like a waste of time.

Like people going out of their way trying to ensure other people respect them by demanding it or not leaving them until they’re sure they “have it.”

It’s like- you can’t force how others treat you or see you. So live your live and go after your goals. The rest is just irrelevant.

If this is news. This news is irrelevant to myself.

[Joshydavid25]

@Rosexøxø Wow, this is spot on.. I agree entirely..

[handsomelad70]

Good luck, Joshydavid25.

[Joshydavid25]

@handsomelad70 Thanks man, I might need it.. Lmao..

[LiamJHayden]

I think it is hilarious and odd that so many people do not get that it is ridiculing those particular women who make absurd demands like $400K yearly, pay all her bills after they start dating, etc.

[coachTanthony]

Problem is it's just a handful of women who do that but when you go on Tik Tok and millions of women see it that could influence very bad behavior as if it's a good idea lol

[MzAsh]

It’s kinda funny. Not that deep. I’m the type of woman that would rather pay the bills than be a housewife anyway. But uh, if I’m bringing home the bacon, best believe he’s going to do all the cooking and cleaning.

[dustybiker2]

Drizzle castles? I like these drizzles.

[Anonymous]

It's hilarious to me. I've never had a problem with paying for my own things so it's only women who are looking for that kind of treatment that are butthurt.

[Anonymous]

don't get it twisted

sprinkle sprinkle was never about women embracing their traditional feminine roles

it was about women taking advantage of men's traditional masculine roles

drizzle drizzle is a response to all these strong independent women still demanding men adhere to traditional gender roles while they themselves refuse to adhere to their traditional gender roles

[Siri137]

Oh God, not another "movement"! As if we needed any more of them.

[UniquelyBasic]

I find it funny and I don't think it's really going to go anywhere other than being a funny way to throw some women's logic back in their faces.

[NathanDavis]

I've only heard of BBL Drizzy...

[handsomelad70]

Screw "Drizzy" though he's a fellow Canadian lad.

[sheikalana]

I mean later on don't complain you still single.

[Anonymous]

I'm moving to Mexico. The U. S. is a joke. They have no idea how thoroughly dysfunctional they are. No one needs their advice.

[coachTanthony]

Say hello to the cartels for me lol

[Xia1994]

Both the drizzle drizzle movement and the sprinkle sprinkle movement are to be completely honest, really are toxic as ever and unhelpful.

[Anonymous]

Men really act like full blown bitches nowadays, it’s gross

[coachTanthony]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[CriticalCatDad]

I'm supportive of it because the women who get it understand female nature

[Rosexøxø]

I’ll admit I’m uncomfortable with that phrase. I don’t know you but I’ll assume you don’t actually know because you aren’t one. I could be exception who knows but it doesn’t apply to myself, and there’s nothing wrong with a guy offering to pay for a woman’s meal. Actually it’s a polite thing. For my husband I’d never expect him to but if he offered I’d be flattered. If a man can’t pay for a woman it’s not necessarily her fault it’s the people who pay the guy. What job he went for. And stuff with taxes. Not necessarily the female. Is it irrational? Possibly. The gesture should go both ways in the sense. She shouldn’t order a HORSE. He offered respect his paycheck and earnings. Either eat around what he gets in price or eat small and just get to know each other. It’s not ALL ON or about the meal. It’s the gesture, the mindfulness, and the courtesy. But a lot of people lack this from both sides. I’ve sent money to my husband. That’s how I am as a caring person and he knows he’s free to leave me or say how he feels etc. I love him, I always hope he wouldn’t and that he’s happy with me. I’m just saying I still expect him to pay for me or offer it. IN THE BEGINNING as a way to prove he respected me and didn’t take me for some slut or easy person. Since I know he loves me and respects me and thinks of me, and because my love for him is mutual and genuine. I would offer we split it or each pay for what we buy and want for ourselves. 🤷‍♀️

[Rosexøxø]

That was just my opinion to your post though. Feel free to disregard it. I won’t comment further.

[CriticalCatDad]

Good for you and your husband. I still believe men do too much for women and women don't do enough for men in fact women demand more from him. Which is why I don't bother dating or having relationships I prefer not to be a slave or cheated on like in my past relationships or falsely accused like I was in college or used for my money like I was just last year.

[OtterMan68]

all I know is that "Drizzle drizzle" sounds like a child's tv show

[handsomelad70]

Most Americans function at a sixth-grade level, so it would be appropriate.