She has sat next to me in every class for 2 terms and we have never even said a word to each other. Is it too late to start talking?
No it isn't too late although your school year should be ending soon I would think. You indicate that you are from the US. That would mean school is over in the next month. Time to make a move and talk to her because time is running out. She likely doesn't know you have an interest since you've sat next to her and never said a word according to your own words. It you have a crush on her why not say even hi? Seems like wasted opportunities if you've been right next to her half the school year. It isn't too late to say something but honestly you should do it soon. Once school is out and summer hits then that opportunity is gone.
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Who knows she might have a crush on you too and that's why she didn't talk to you all this time.
The question though is how? And honestly I'm not the best at approaching women.
Personally my strategy is more to just talk to everyone a little bit. I have bad social anxiety so this is part of me fixing that.
I find it so much easier to talk to any woman when I'm literally just talking to all the women. Talking to everyone around. Not in an annoying way where I'm buzzing around harassing people.
But I say things. Whatever is on my mind. Let's say I let them borrow a pen, well ill say something. Who knows what I'll say "just keep it I know you're gonna steal it anyways!" With a smile. Or something random like that.
When I talk to women I don't want to think at all. I just want to say whatever comes to mind that is the best way.
If you talk to her but you're all anxious and shit it's gonna fuck up the energy.
Better late than never. Bring up something you both have in common, like a school related question or comment.
Never too late. Just smile at her and say hi. Make eye contact. Make conversation about the subject in your class.
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Step 1: Approach her.
Step 2: Open mouth.
Step 3: Speak words (don't grunt).
It’s not too late! You should ask her questions about school topics or just ask/talk about what both of you guys like. It’s normal to feel like you can’t approach your crush. I would think about talking to her and gaining the confidence to do it.
I met this girl while swimming laps I just asked her if she wanted to race
With words? It's HS bruh!!! Shoot your shot!!!
No, bro... busy a move! Start by saying something about the class, maybe ask to study for the class with her.
Say "Hi, how are you doing today?" to break the icy prison of silent dispair.
Force yourself to say "HI" easy. You hot to start somewhere.
Never. Ask her for to buy her a cup of coffee. Dont they have mobile starbucks on campus?
Talk to her the way you would want her to talk to you
Why u like her lol
Never too late to start talking.
Do it son.
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