There’s this guy at my church that I have a bit of a crush on. We met on Sunday and it’s the first time we started talking to each other. When I go to church this week, if I do see him again I don’t want it to be awkward. Any tips for me not to get nervous?
Try not to get ahead of yourself. You might already be desiring a relationship with him and maybe even have some romantic fantasies. That messes you up. So try to forget that bigger goal as much as you can. Just focus on the small goal of having some fun and nice conversations with him. Don't plan or rehearse anything. Just go with the flow. No goal but conversation. If things flow smoothly, you might say you'd like to see him again sometime (still leaves the ball in his court to ask you out).
Being nervous is normal and just think of it as the thrill. Ask him if he would meet you for coffee. Tell him something you like about him. If he’s handsome or whatever it may be. Maybe he’s funny. Whatever it is.
Wish you the best
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He's probably just as nervous. Take a couple of deep breaths and just say hello to him. Ask him how he is doing or if he enjoyed the service. If it's beforehand ask if you can sit with him.
Hey, Good morning, how you're doing?
If the connection is there then the conversation will flow naturally.
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